sweetmind20 Posted January 9, 2004 Share Posted January 9, 2004 hello everyone, i'm not sure if anyone can offer me an opinion here but i'll give it a shot... my fiance and i are very happy, and he has never kept me from meeting his family or his co-workers and he has always been very open about how serious we are as a couple. the thing is, he has a best friend (who is a childhood friend he does activities with)and this friend is the kind of guy who oggles women and tries to lay a different chic every week, etc. needless to say, this guy isn't exactly into the whole commitment thing. what i am wondering though is this: why my boyfriend won't tell him that we are engaged. if he is his best friend, why would he keep something like that to himself? i especially don't appreciate because this best friend likes to ty to get my guy to try and hook up with other people( though i do know my guy would never cheat on me) my fiance's friend is obviously unaware of how serious we are, and yet he still won't clue him in. what is going on? thanks for any opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
AllyKat Posted January 9, 2004 Share Posted January 9, 2004 I am curious how you know that his friend isnt aware that you arent engaged? I mean if you are around this friend then YOU tell him. That way, he will know. I always hated that one friend who always had to try to bring his friend down to his low life like this guy is trying to do to your guy. Im happy your guy wont cheat on you. Maybe he is concerned that his friend would look at him differently because he is engaged!? Which sounds strange but some people think differently than we do. Talk to your guy and ask him whats up with this. There really shouldnt be a reason why he wouldnt tell his friend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sweetmind20 Posted January 9, 2004 Author Share Posted January 9, 2004 thanks for your opinion, allycat how do i know his bf doesn't know? because my bf told me. he said "heck,no, he doesn't know. i'm not telling him yet." anyways, thank you , and have a good day Link to post Share on other sites
Errol Posted January 9, 2004 Share Posted January 9, 2004 how do i know his bf doesn't know? because my bf told me. he said "heck,no, he doesn't know. i'm not telling him yet." At this point in your conversation didn't you ask him WHY? He's the only one who can tell you why he does or does not do things. Link to post Share on other sites
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