the-other-guy Posted March 7, 2010 Share Posted March 7, 2010 Ever since i was 13 ive had this weird issue around girls. i get really anxious around them and i worry alot. It gets to a point where i literally feel nausea until i am alone. Ive been with a few girls since ive discovered this happening and it usually goes away within a couple weeks. I've seen someone about it and apparently its a clinical anxiety disorder. Its very difficult to be with someone when being around them makes you sick and even harder to get close tot hem. Ive only explained it to one girl. I know it would be difficult to be with someone like that but would it really scare off most girls? just wanted to know. Link to post Share on other sites
MrsPeaSoup Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 What about first trying to date online? Just get to know how to talk to women so you know what to do when you're around them? Link to post Share on other sites
Pedigree Posted April 2, 2010 Share Posted April 2, 2010 Should focus on conditioning yourself, man. Start with girls who you have no interest at all and focus on yourself from there. Link to post Share on other sites
nobmagnet Posted April 2, 2010 Share Posted April 2, 2010 hello, do you have any idea why yet as to why you feel this way?? as suggested text and mail and IM them you get to know them. Get to the point you just cant not meet them. Maybe you have a little low self esteam? its not easy when you are just getting "Out there" Im an oldie and have not ventured on this section before but all i will say is women are not all scary and if you can explain to her about you anx she will more than likely be charmed by your honesty. Nobby xx Link to post Share on other sites
FreddieJones Posted April 2, 2010 Share Posted April 2, 2010 Don't try to start from Girlfriends or strangers, if you have any cousin close to you then spend some time with her, have talk with her and also better idea to have online girlfriend, It may can help you fix the problem. Link to post Share on other sites
nobmagnet Posted April 2, 2010 Share Posted April 2, 2010 or indeed platonicly ask a woman on here. to me i completely understand the fear of putting it out there. Rejection ect. Nice women/girls make you feel right when you open up. if they dont well she is not for you. just how i have found it nobby:love: Link to post Share on other sites
hpblah Posted April 6, 2010 Share Posted April 6, 2010 Hey, I dated a guy similar to that for like three years... everytime we met he would be nervous as anything, it got better with time and learnt to trust me and let me in... it requires good communication between the two people Good Luck Hannah Link to post Share on other sites
mixwell Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 In a very basic and simple response all I can say is this- Stop giving a damn what other people think of you and work on your confidence. You need to grow some thicker skin and be confident.. Your lack of confidence will shoot you in the foot everytime you encounter a woman.. Women seen to have a sixth sense on picking up weakness and lets face it, no women like insecure men.. Work on fixing yourself and stop worrying soo much about what other people think about you. .. seriously... Link to post Share on other sites
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