JustJoe Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 (edited) I'm with you Mr. Shemp, I really loved (and love ) my MW. I hope that things will be better for you. Edited March 11, 2010 by JustJoe Link to post Share on other sites
Author stampdaddy Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 This just shows empathy Stamp. Even though he's going through a loss, he would have gone through it anyway regardless of you. They might have gotten divorced anyway too. Sometimes the cart comes before the horse. yeah, perhaps.. I know that things werent great before me, and that she had already started to "separate" in a way, you know, the "girls night out's", "girls trips" etc... That's not to say that it could still be going on that way OR she may have met another "me", but she met ME.. What freaks me out now, is that when I first got here, I didnt believe all of the folks that said there is a "script", BUT BELIEVE ME, there is. She has a looooonnnnnggggg road ahead of her, that is for sure. Fortunately for me, I have been on my road for a couple of years now, and I am starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel, and I will be OKEE DOKEE Link to post Share on other sites
Heather1 Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 I'm glad There's a script, because of the situation is not normal. I believe in timing & luck. Sometimes we met our AP @ the wrong time, and if we would have met them before we got M things would be a lot different. Maybe she'll be a lot different now that's she's single? Takes that guilt element away & the rollercoaster that goes with it. Stay on your path, she'll figure it out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author stampdaddy Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 I'm glad There's a script, because of the situation is not normal. I believe in timing & luck. Sometimes we met our AP @ the wrong time, and if we would have met them before we got M things would be a lot different. Maybe she'll be a lot different now that's she's single? Takes that guilt element away & the rollercoaster that goes with it. Stay on your path, she'll figure it out. well, unfortunately it wont matter because of several things. First and most devastating to me is the knowledge that she did NOT make a move to come to me, especially after everything we shared and promised... Second, too much damage has been done. Third, the elements of how the divorce itself has been set up wont allow for us to thrive and Fourth, I have been thrown under the bus so badly that I could never rebound back into the lives of her side.... The issue I have is like I said very early in this thread, I have a hard time just "throwing her away". BUT, I sure as sh*t can't bring her along my path, especially when I meet someone else... Link to post Share on other sites
OldEurope Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 well, unfortunately it wont matter because of several things. First and most devastating to me is the knowledge that she did NOT make a move to come to me, especially after everything we shared and promised... Second, too much damage has been done. Third, the elements of how the divorce itself has been set up wont allow for us to thrive and Fourth, I have been thrown under the bus so badly that I could never rebound back into the lives of her side.... The issue I have is like I said very early in this thread, I have a hard time just "throwing her away". BUT, I sure as sh*t can't bring her along my path, especially when I meet someone else... M'kay. Yeah. Now, back to reality. Who here wants to bet me that His Royal Stampness isn't seeing MW again by the time the Easter Bunny is doing tha' wild thang? xox OE Link to post Share on other sites
Confused4Now Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 well, unfortunately it wont matter because of several things. First and most devastating to me is the knowledge that she did NOT make a move to come to me, especially after everything we shared and promised... Second, too much damage has been done. Third, the elements of how the divorce itself has been set up wont allow for us to thrive and Fourth, I have been thrown under the bus so badly that I could never rebound back into the lives of her side.... The issue I have is like I said very early in this thread, I have a hard time just "throwing her away". BUT, I sure as sh*t can't bring her along my path, especially when I meet someone else...Like you Stamp I don't have as much water under the bridge as you did with my MW. Your MW really sounded messed up. I agree with you that she has to make her own way to you and it shouldn't be something of you pulling her. Which I know both you and I were doing. I stopped pulling a long time ago. Keep doing what your doing.....focus on you. I know you are a decent man and you will find love once again just cause the way you are. Peace brother.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author stampdaddy Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 M'kay. Yeah. Now, back to reality. Who here wants to bet me that His Royal Stampness isn't seeing MW again by the time the Easter Bunny is doing tha' wild thang? xox OE Put me down for a Grover!! there ain't no way possible.... It just can't work, period, and I would be cheating MYSELF and going nowhere but backwards if I did. The thought of it feels "ugly" Link to post Share on other sites
OldEurope Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 Put me down for a Grover!! there ain't no way possible.... It just can't work, period, and I would be cheating MYSELF and going nowhere but backwards if I did. The thought of it feels "ugly" All righty, then! Three festive, fertile bunnies for you! :bunny: OE Link to post Share on other sites
Author stampdaddy Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 All righty, then! Three festive, fertile bunnies for you! :bunny: OE I'll pick bunny #2 Link to post Share on other sites
OldEurope Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 I'll pick bunny #2 Thank God, I thought the response would be a Playboy something or other joke. ("Bunnies"......"tail"...er, um...you get it....!) xo OE Link to post Share on other sites
Author stampdaddy Posted March 12, 2010 Author Share Posted March 12, 2010 Thank God, I thought the response would be a Playboy something or other joke. ("Bunnies"......"tail"...er, um...you get it....!) xo OE well, what do you think I am going to do to the poor Bunny #2?? Pet it?? and you forgot "hare" and "jack rabbit" Link to post Share on other sites
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