Am i goin the right route?

[ciara12step]

I'll make it as simple as possible !

 

Im a guy who was in a previous 3 year relationship that was not goin

anywhere but this one girl made me see the light and pulled me out of that one..

 

With the new girl we became intimate for a good 2 1/2 months, altho were not

together (just livin life how it comes)

 

Now the honeymoon phase of this lover/friendship has kinda sizzled down, havent been intimate the past 2 months now .. just lil small things .. But

the friendship is growing a really strong bond .. We sometimes argue, and

i try to take a break, but then she'll call and text like crazy ..

 

She stated in the beginning there was more of a challenge cause i was with

someone, etc, and thats what led to so much passion in the beginning

 

Should i be worried if we havent been intimate in awhile ??

 

will a friendship catch fire and go further in the future ??

 

and how do i get her more on her toes instead of always going a day or

2 without calling lol ..

[ADF]

The fact this woman talks about the "challenge" of being with an attached man being a source of "passion" is a giant red flad. GIANT RED FLAG. People like her are fickle and unfaithful, moving from one thrill to the next and leaving a trail of broken hearts behind. Be sure she'll find the "challenge" of cheating on you with another guy a "passionate" experience as well. Kick this nut to the curb, already.

[jackiss]

No, stay calm.

[ciara12step]

so jackiss, just take it as it goes ? shes always txtin, callin me many times throughout the day so it seems she really cares . .

 

oh and adf , i understand what youre sayin .. maybe i should rephrase that she said more of a challenge because it wasnt so easy to obtain me .. she was after me alot right after i broke up with my ex , but now that she knows she can have me anytime .. i think its kinda made her relaxed .

 

i just wanna find a way to make the fire burn harder again ..