Rearden Metal Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 Here's the email I sent last night to say the things I needed to say to my ex. Now, she can die in a grease fire (diagf, use it, you'll like it) if it so pleases her. Since it's clear that I won't have the opportunity to say this to you face to face, in a counseling session or a heart to heart talk (which I'm not sure you've ever had in your life, or are capable of), I'm going to say it in an email. You've handled almost EVERYTHING to do with me poorly, right from the start. You breached my trust over and over and justified it by saying that the ends justified the means. You were right that I had behaved badly. But I cleaned up my act. BIG TIME. But you didn't change your ways. And I began to act like you did, checking your **** and looking into your past. Well didn't I find some things too? Yeah, there's even things I found I haven't mentioned. You do realize that you are very difficult to trust also, don't you? I straightened up and devoted myself to you. And all I got for it was you saying I turned soft, and lost my appeal. I should have sent you packing SO many times. In fact, I DID. You didn't deserve the chances I gave you one bit. At my lowest points, instead of talking to me about our problems, your fears and how we were slipping, you decided instead to give me the cold shoulder and close yourself off to me. You built walls. YES I acted like a stupid ass when you denied me sex. YES I needed to wake the **** up. BUT we could have addressed this as a couple, like adults. We could have worked on all of these things. You abused me xxxxxx. Emotionally, mentally, verbally. ****, even our fight was YOU hitting ME while verbally abusing me. Not to mention that you were WRONG about what we were fighting about. Own up to it, you treated me like total **** over and over and I started just dealing with it, internalizing it. I'd see flashes of potential with you, and I got attached to that potential, but the reality is you were and are a huuuugeeee ****ing nightmare. I am no angel. I need to work hard on myself. But girl, you need some SERIOUS help. You can't even TALK to a man you say you love. Or did you fall out of love with me in the last 2 months? Because that's not even possible if it were real love. You'd better start working on your issues, or you are going to victimize the next man, and the next, and the next. And you'll be digging yourself a hole deeper and deeper. I would have faced ALL of your issues, and my issues, with you. I'd have walked through fire to make our lives better together. I'd have taken a bullet for you. And I never, ever would have disrespected you again, if you could have just faced these issues with me like two people in love do. With a little support and positivity instead of fear and loathing, we could have formed a really strong bond that would have lasted us until we were old. We could have made a bunch of really good looking kids, too. I really and truly want you to be happy and healthy, but you needed to hear this from me because my life has been pure torture since nearly the moment we met. Do not respond to this. Read it and get angry and call me an *******, rip up my pictures. But deep down, there's a place inside you where you know what I'm saying is true. You know I would have walked to the end of the earth to make us healthier. And you know you are going to destroy any relationship you have unless you can learn to face your issues. You'd better start sooner than later. [COLOR=#888888][COLOR=#888888] [/COLOR][/COLOR] Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rearden Metal Posted March 12, 2010 Author Share Posted March 12, 2010 Burnnnnn, you lazy, fat, lying manipulative BLEEP! Link to post Share on other sites
McGrupp Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 meh...NC woul've been better. ull learn though... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rearden Metal Posted March 12, 2010 Author Share Posted March 12, 2010 meh...NC woul've been better. ull learn though... McGrupp I ain't in the mood. I'll break necks today. Link to post Share on other sites
annxxdisaster Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 jokes kinda on you with this one :\ Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rearden Metal Posted March 12, 2010 Author Share Posted March 12, 2010 jokes kinda on you with this one :\ it's funny, her SN has xx in the middle, just like yours. I bet you have a lot in common. Link to post Share on other sites
McGrupp Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 lets analyze your letter. it basically says..."you hurt me. im emotional right now. im insecure. you hurt me so im going to try and hurt you" she knows this. it doesn't matter what you say, how you rationalize everything. just admit to yourself she hurt you. u miss her. it hurts your ego. ill tell u know she certainly wont contact you anymore, nor will she come back after you wrote something like this. admit to yourself you going to let her go and then do. you wont go NC. and stop thinking you situation is different because we all went through this. its not different. stop being emotional. admit defeat and move on... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rearden Metal Posted March 12, 2010 Author Share Posted March 12, 2010 lets analyze your letter. it basically says..."you hurt me. im emotional right now. im insecure. you hurt me so im going to try and hurt you" she knows this. it doesn't matter what you say, how you rationalize everything. just admit to yourself she hurt you. u miss her. it hurts your ego. ill tell u know she certainly wont contact you anymore, nor will she come back after you wrote something like this. admit to yourself you going to let her go and then do. you wont go NC. and stop thinking you situation is different because we all went through this. its not different. stop being emotional. admit defeat and move on... This is spot on. Thank you. However, if the result is that she does not contact me anymore, then I'll consider that a fantastic result. I'm admitting defeat. At the hands of a fat, lazy intellectual inferior. She beat me, straight up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rearden Metal Posted March 12, 2010 Author Share Posted March 12, 2010 Actually, she whooped me, with a handicap. Like the bartender whooped Tiger Woods. I got owned. Link to post Share on other sites
nowomanocry Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 lets analyze your letter. it basically says..."you hurt me. im emotional right now. im insecure. you hurt me so im going to try and hurt you" she knows this. it doesn't matter what you say, how you rationalize everything. just admit to yourself she hurt you. u miss her. it hurts your ego. ill tell u know she certainly wont contact you anymore, nor will she come back after you wrote something like this. admit to yourself you going to let her go and then do. you wont go NC. and stop thinking you situation is different because we all went through this. its not different. stop being emotional. admit defeat and move on... How ya know mate? Your a fortune teller or summink lol... He did what he thinks was right. You will be amazed what life might bring in the future for him. So come on, give up this NC crap. That is bulllshiat mate. She is the one who will loose loosing a guy like RM. Just think! Link to post Share on other sites
nowomanocry Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 it's funny, her SN has xx in the middle, just like yours. I bet you have a lot in common. roflmfaol mate Bless ya! Link to post Share on other sites
nowomanocry Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 McGrupp I ain't in the mood. I'll break necks today. RM - where the fook r ya mate ! Come on in & whoop my azz roflmfaol - God almost choked to death ! God bless you mate. Link to post Share on other sites
nowomanocry Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 Burnnnnn, you lazy, fat, lying manipulative BLEEP! Fatfook lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rearden Metal Posted March 12, 2010 Author Share Posted March 12, 2010 RM - where the fook r ya mate ! Come on in & whoop my azz roflmfaol - God almost choked to death ! God bless you mate. Yeah yeah, I'm here. Just deleted about 2000 pics from my hard drive. Deleted everything I could find. Found her sock in my car yesterday, I think I might burn it. I'm seriously pissed at myself for EVER letting such a lowlife kunt get to me like that. Link to post Share on other sites
monkeymaid Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 you had to get that out. now use the cathartic momentum and stay on that positive road to letting this all go. ...after a while, you will look back, and wont be able to see this! as i will. to hell with them hoes Link to post Share on other sites
nowomanocry Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 Yeah yeah, I'm here. Just deleted about 2000 pics from my hard drive. Deleted everything I could find. Found her sock in my car yesterday, I think I might burn it. I'm seriously pissed at myself for EVER letting such a lowlife kunt get to me like that. roflmfaol RM - didn't no u were goin' doggin' with her mate OMG - you really have lost it haven't ya? Well I got over that phase a couple of days ago I foooking threw all her things from the balcony didnt even put 'em in a plastic bin bag lol... Though, after that day we have came closer to each other, I think she's realisng the mistake she did and trying to (slowly by slowly) get together again, I dunno. Well my gurl is a fatfook lowlife kunt living on state benefits & council home as well, but hey I AM FOOOKING IN LOVE WITH HER! So gonna live this at any price..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rearden Metal Posted March 12, 2010 Author Share Posted March 12, 2010 this kunt would have to crawl on her hands and knees, then apologize in a manner that she's wholly incapable of, then start to make a LOT of sense out of things. Even then I might send her packing. I'm so effing pissed at this TOTAL WASTE OF A GODDAMM CALENDAR YEAR... Link to post Share on other sites
monkeymaid Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 haha roflmfao!!! i look forward to the day when i can feel such contempt for her! burn that sock...oh, and keep the nudes! Link to post Share on other sites
nowomanocry Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 this kunt would have to crawl on her hands and knees, then apologize in a manner that she's wholly incapable of, then start to make a LOT of sense out of things. Even then I might send her packing. I'm so effing pissed at this TOTAL WASTE OF A GODDAMM CALENDAR YEAR... Use the sock as a condom, then afta ya done post it to her Link to post Share on other sites
McGrupp Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 u guys should stay away from fat chicks Link to post Share on other sites
annxxdisaster Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 it's funny, her SN has xx in the middle, just like yours. I bet you have a lot in common. Who knows. Sorry for not agreeing with your e-mail. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rearden Metal Posted March 12, 2010 Author Share Posted March 12, 2010 u guys should stay away from fat chicks In my defense, this is an incredibly hot fat chick. Oh, and yeah, I'm keeping the nudes. Link to post Share on other sites
nowomanocry Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 Who knows. Sorry for not agreeing with your e-mail. Are you fat to hun Link to post Share on other sites
annxxdisaster Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 Are you fat to hun Why must we make fun of both my literacy issues AND my weight problems? If you're going to make fun of me, please just stick to one topic. D: I'll mentally crack if you pick out all my flaws at once. Link to post Share on other sites
sean1970 Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 lets analyze your letter. it basically says..."you hurt me. im emotional right now. im insecure. you hurt me so im going to try and hurt you" And he is being kind here RM... she knows this. it doesn't matter what you say, how you rationalize everything. just admit to yourself she hurt you. u miss her. it hurts your ego. ill tell u know she certainly wont contact you anymore, nor will she come back after you wrote something like this. admit to yourself you going to let her go and then do. you wont go NC. and stop thinking you situation is different because we all went through this. its not different. stop being emotional. admit defeat and move on... Gospel... Link to post Share on other sites
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