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nowomanocry
Why must we make fun of both my literacy issues AND my weight problems? If you're going to make fun of me, please just stick to one topic. D: I'll mentally crack if you pick out all my flaws at once.

 

no ones making fun of yer weight issues hun, chill, if you have simply read the whole thread you shall see my ex was fat too and I love her

 

don't no about the literacy issue though, me never said a word about it - don't be offended hun ;);)

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Rearden Metal

Nothing yet, right now I'm fielding nasty texts from her telling me not to contact her friends or family (because some of them talk to me). She's just going ballistic so I'm forwarding the messages to my email in case she does anything stupid.

 

This is such total BS. I was completely leaving her alone and she had to stir **** up. My email to her wasn't even terribly pointed, but it sure as hell hit a sore spot, apparently.

 

The funny thing is 3, 6 months from now, whenever, I know she'll contact me again. That's a fact.

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no ones making fun of yer weight issues hun, chill, if you have simply read the whole thread you shall see my ex was fat too and I love her

 

don't no about the literacy issue though, me never said a word about it - don't be offended hun ;);)

 

Sarcasm really doesn't play well over the internet. :\ You're friend was making fun of me for not agreeing with him, or trying to say I'm just like his ex. I may be, so who knows.

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nowomanocry
Nothing yet, right now I'm fielding nasty texts from her telling me not to contact her friends or family (because some of them talk to me). She's just going ballistic so I'm forwarding the messages to my email in case she does anything stupid.

 

This is such total BS. I was completely leaving her alone and she had to stir **** up. My email to her wasn't even terribly pointed, but it sure as hell hit a sore spot, apparently.

 

The funny thing is 3, 6 months from now, whenever, I know she'll contact me again. That's a fact.

 

Good that she got the arse over it lol - heh heh DONT BOTHA RESPONDING THE KUNT THAT'LL DRIVE HER INSANE

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nowomanocry
Nothing yet, right now I'm fielding nasty texts from her telling me not to contact her friends or family (because some of them talk to me). She's just going ballistic so I'm forwarding the messages to my email in case she does anything stupid.

 

This is such total BS. I was completely leaving her alone and she had to stir **** up. My email to her wasn't even terribly pointed, but it sure as hell hit a sore spot, apparently.

 

The funny thing is 3, 6 months from now, whenever, I know she'll contact me again. That's a fact.

 

Can't believe a single sock can be such a big issue lmfao

 

Be cool mate, yeh women always get offended by slightest - explanation lack of self-esteem. there was nothing wrong with the mail you wrote to her....

 

I am very sure her contacting u would not take that long lol - patience

 

Mind you tho, are you still in love with her?

 

I am ***ing crazy about her and planning to fly over there if the going gets nicer

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Rearden Metal

I'm in love with her, but I hate who she is. I wouldn't see her right now, and don't want to talk to her. Give it 6 months or a year, maybe I'll feel differently, but right now I'd rather hurt alone than deal with this psycho chick.

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...in case she does anything stupid.

 

Like respond again...

 

This is such total BS. I was completely leaving her alone and she had to stir **** up. My email to her wasn't even terribly pointed, but it sure as hell hit a sore spot, apparently.

 

Are you serious? Did you read what you wrote or cut n paste from YouAreA_MessedUpBitch.com?

 

The funny thing is 3, 6 months from now, whenever, I know she'll contact me again. That's a fact.

 

Lets hope not...

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nowomanocry
I'm in love with her, but I hate who she is. I wouldn't see her right now, and don't want to talk to her. Give it 6 months or a year, maybe I'll feel differently, but right now I'd rather hurt alone than deal with this psycho chick.

 

fair enough RM

 

Yeh but u know love and hate come hand in hand. Be cool, go for wot you think is right

 

Very funny though my relationship ended because of the distance and all thru the relationship we didn't even have a proper fight or a row with each other - so funny all this god!

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Rearden Metal

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Are you serious? Did you read what you wrote or cut n paste from YouAreA_MessedUpBitch.com?

 

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Ok, you're right, it was SOMEWHAT pointed. I hope she feels it deep, I really do. But I don't want a war with this girl, she's capable of really really dumb things.

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fair enough RM

 

Yeh but u know love and hate come hand in hand. Be cool, go for wot you think is right

 

Very funny though my relationship ended because of the distance and all thru the relationship we didn't even have a proper fight or a row with each other - so funny all this god!

 

Oh man, this girl and I got at each other constantly. She would start **** every damn day, almost. And she NEVER apologized. Ok, she did like twice, ever, and I was blown away. Like "I can't believe I'm hearing this" blown away.

 

Sean, you're ABS right, it would be best if she goes away and stays away.

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Ok, you're right, it was SOMEWHAT pointed. I hope she feels it deep, I really do. But I don't want a war with this girl, she's capable of really really dumb things.

 

You need a Xanax RM... And maybe a dose of perspective...

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No matter what angle you come at her from, it will be the wrong one. You running to hold a mirror up so she can see how wrong she looks is never going to have the result you hope...

 

Leave her alone RM....

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this kunt would have to crawl on her hands and knees, then apologize in a manner that she's wholly incapable of, then start to make a LOT of sense out of things. Even then I might send her packing. I'm so effing pissed at this TOTAL WASTE OF A GODDAMM CALENDAR YEAR...

 

I don't think you'll have to worry about that dear. I have a feeling she will never contact you again. As a matter of fact she's probably sharing your note with her new boyfriend right now and laughing at it. Sorry you're hurting, it's a really sucky feeling, but man you need to let this go before you make a bigger fool of yourself trying to make a fool of her. You are not in a rational state of mind right now and everything you do that involves here will eventfully backfire. Take a deep breath and just tell yourself for the rest of the day you'll let it go and get busy with other stuff, tomorrow you can go at it again but who knows maybe tomorrow you’ll feel calmer. :(

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nowomanocry
I don't think you'll have to worry about that dear. I have a feeling she will never contact you again. As a matter of fact she's probably sharing your note with her new boyfriend right now and laughing at it. Sorry you're hurting, it's a really sucky feeling, but man you need to let this go before you make a bigger fool of yourself trying to make a fool of her. :(

 

ILovecake

 

don't agree - she will be contacting him soon at least to have the last say on this

 

As far as I can see RM is more mature when compared to her. He didn't do any mistake yelling his feelings off to her. I think it was the right thing to do because no need to waste time with games. Str8 to the target - wham! The fact that she is pissed off and bombarding him with sms es is the biggest proof that she not happy and will be calling him soon - ya wana bet?...lol

 

Her sharing his note with the new fella doesn't mean anything. Sooner or later she'll either get dumped or cheated on. Or vice versa....it doesn't matter either of them will soon be joining the club anyway

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don't agree - she will be contacting him soon at least to have the last say on this

 

As far as I can see RM is more mature when compared to her. He didn't do any mistake yelling his feelings off to her. I think it was the right thing to do because no need to waste time with games. Str8 to the target - wham! The fact that she is pissed off and bombarding him with sms es is the biggest proof that she not happy and will be calling him soon - ya wana bet?...lol

 

Her sharing his note with the new fella doesn't mean anything. Sooner or later she'll either get dumped or cheated on. Or vice versa....it doesn't matter either of them will soon be joining the club anyway

 

I agree that she probably will contact him again. It seems both want to have the last say. But he's gotta take the higher road now and ignore her. He's said what he needs to say and now Rearden needs to focus on his own life.

 

Otherwise this will spiral into a nasty exchange that goes on and on

 

I think for him, the games need to end and he can find someone new.

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don't agree - she will be contacting him soon at least to have the last say on this

 

As far as I can see RM is more mature when compared to her. He didn't do any mistake yelling his feelings off to her. I think it was the right thing to do because no need to waste time with games. Str8 to the target - wham! The fact that she is pissed off and bombarding him with sms es is the biggest proof that she not happy and will be calling him soon - ya wana bet?...lol

 

Her sharing his note with the new fella doesn't mean anything. Sooner or later she'll either get dumped or cheated on. Or vice versa....it doesn't matter either of them will soon be joining the club anyway

 

Man after reading this thread I'm starting to think that maybe you have some romantic feelings towards Rearden Metal. You seem to be all up in his business and have answered more posts here than he has. It's funny how one moment you're asking someone if they're clairvoyant when they give him advice yet you are extremely adamant about what exactly is going to happen here. Step back a little, you're overbearing. I'm sure if he only wanted your opinion and nobody else’s he would have just sent you a personal note, no?

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Rearden Metal

North and NWNC,

 

This is a fact: I was the most positive thing ever to occur in her life. She may choose to remember some of the bad stuff only, but at some point a feeling, a thought will creep in and she'll recognize that I put my whole self towards bettering our life together.

 

It's almost guaranteed that she'll screw up the next relationship, and that she'll eventually contact me. When she's angry, she says nasty, terrible things. This isn't the first time, but it's the worst time. She'll be back, but hopefully I'll be way over it and won't feel the need to reply.

 

Sean, you're absolutely right.

 

Ilovecake- doesn't matter to me who she shares it with. It's the truth and I'm not ashamed of it one bit.

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This post is filled with sarcasm, insults and inappropriate writing and needs to be closed. Thank you.

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