Thanks everyone..please read

[alaman19]

Just wanted to say thanks to all who've given me advice..turns out the girl I like is already dating somebody..heard about it tonight. Needless to say i'm depressed about it but not as much as I thought I'd be, I'm glad I didn't ask her yet..I would have made a complete fool out of myself doing that so atleast I still have my dignity and I'm gonna do my best to be her friend if I can but now I'm off to start school maybe I'll meet someone there though knowing my luck it's probably not going to happen..But thanks to everyone who read my posts and especially those who responded to them with comments I really appreciate the fact that you took the time to try and help me out hopefully I'll be on here posting again about a new girl..wishful thinking on my part what can I say! Please wish me luck cause I hope the best for all of you guys who helped me out.

 

It's funny though I've been coming on here reading others posts and all I can say is some of you guys have got it made!! you really do I mean those of you with bf or gf's your really lucky yet some of you treat the other like ****! and you should be ashamed of yourselves all of you!! remember people like me us single people who look OK..not Perfect or whatever but are never gonna cheat on you or abuse you emotionally or physically!! remember that cause were the ones out here who have what? NOBODY nothing just our school or jobs to go to what a great thing to look forward to everyday! Thanks alot Life is what I say just a nice big kick in the rear for people like me what a big Hurray!!

[darling]

You shouldnt be so pessimestic. Everything happens for a reason. Dont let this time alone make you lonely. Rather use it constructively to help you evolve as an individual. You have to be emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually ready to get into a relationship. Relationships take a lot of time, effort, energy, emotion and thought. It is time consuming and can challange you in ways you could have never imagined. The trip can be fun but it also has its downsides. You need to feel ready for this rollercoaster to be a good partner. ( i am not doubting that you are, i am just stating my opinion on the circumstance)

 

You sound like you have low self esteem and very depressed. This will only on pass to your relationship that will ruin it. you need to learn how to be alone, before you can be with someone.

 

~darling

[tattoomytoe]

alaman- are you an auburn fan or a bama fan?

[alaman19]

Thank you for the replies..I in all honesty wasn't expecting any but certainly I'm grateful for them. answer to you question first tattoomytoe I'm an auburn fan..war eagle always! Now on to your response Darling; I'm not depressed ok..I stopped the other day and thought about what I wrote and I think alot of it was out of anger and shouldn't have been said. The problem with me is I'm just shy and I don't have a self-esteem issue anymore I think when I lost alot of my weight that I've had problems with the last few years certainly helped it..alot of people who know me say they can see the difference in me(as in how I look physically) I even did like jared that subway guy and kept a pair of pants I used to wear that don't fit me anymore..though mine aren't even close to being the size his was if your wondering..just as a reminder of what I accomplished myself and not for anyone else but me.

 

You say I'm being pessimestic we'll your right I really could have it worse I'm dealing with small stuff compared to what others here deal with. And as for that girl I like that is apparently dating someone well I just don't know what to do on it..she's got my two-way id# and every now and again will call me on it if I don't see her at our volunteer group meetings and I guess she's not serious with this guy either cause in July I'm going away for a week on a volunteer group outing and the guy I had going with me backed out and I asked her if she wanted to go and she said yes without even thinking about it..I'd have figured she'd say no or I'll have to talk to so and so about it but I don't know I'm being ridiculed for liking her by another guy in the volunteer group I'm in along with a relative of hers and I don't let it bother me..Sorry if I've been rambling on thats all I got to say Thanks for replying to my post though and I'm gonna remember your reply cause it was something I'm sure I needed to hear.