If a single man acts like this towards a married woman, is he into her?

[michg]

If a man does the following:

 

*Accepts that he should become friends with this single girl's married friend, because the single girl asks him

*Comments on the married girl's joke status

*Comments on a picture of the married girl and other interests they have similar

*Comments on the single girl's status to disagree with her only

*Doesn't email single girl back

*Emails married girl and talks about how single girl is trying to tell him what to do

*Tells single girl that NOTHING will ever happen between them 3 days after becoming friends with married girl (had asked single girl out a week before)

*Tells single girl that he's not interested in the married one b/c he doesn't want stress in his life

* Tells married girl the same but makes it a point to add "I've been down that road before..."

*Tells married girl he's "more than happy" to be friends with her (they've never met) but that nothing will ever happen between him and the single girl

*Emails married girl and is extra polite, unlike he is with single girl

*Tells married girl he's so sorry that single girl hurt her feelings

*Ignores single girl's emails

*Keeps posting things about literature that the married girl only would like

*She offers her FB friends homemade cookies (to be mailed) and he says he would "love" a box

*"Likes" a picture of the married girl where her cleavage is showing quite a bit!

 

Is he into the married girl? (It matters to me to know if he's into her. Honest opinions appreciated.)

[BettyBoop]

Is he into the married girl? (It matters to me to know if he's into her. Honest opinions appreciated.)

 

He is not into her. He just wants to shag a married woman. He said he'd been down that road before, right?

 

In any case it doesn't matter. Because the married woman wouldn't cheat on her husband with a man who obviously had no respect for her or her marriage whatsoever since he thought she was the kind of woman who cheated on her husband, right?

[EnigmasMuse]

"If a single man acts like this towards a married woman, is he into her?"

 

 

 

 

Are you that married woman?

[michg]

No, I'm the single girl. The married girl just posted a poem about being in love with someone but only wanting them if the love is returned...by an author they both like (and liked before they met, you can see that on their pages). He liked the poem and commented that it was nice.... Would you comment on a love poem a married woman posted if you weren't into her?! Here it is:

 

"I want you to know

one thing.

 

You know how this is:

if I look

at the crystal moon, at the red branch

of the slow autumn at my window,

if I touch

near the fire

the impalpable ash

or the wrinkled body of the log,

everything carries me to you,

as if everything that exists,

aromas, light, metals,

were little boats

that sail

toward those isles of yours that wait for me.

 

Well, now,

if little by little you stop loving me

I shall stop loving you little by little.

 

If suddenly

you forget me

do not look for me,

for I shall already have forgotten you.

 

If you think it long and mad,

the wind of banners

that passes through my life,

and you decide

to leave me at the shore

of the heart where I have roots,

remember

that on that day,

at that hour,

I shall lift my arms

and my roots will set off

to seek another land.

 

But

if each day,

each hour,

you feel that you are destined for me

with implacable sweetness,

if each day a flower

climbs up to your lips to seek me,

ah my love, ah my own,

in me all that fire is repeated,

in me nothing is extinguished or forgotten,

my love feeds on your love, beloved,

and as long as you live it will be in your arms

without leaving mine." - Neruda

 

This happened last night. And he deleted me from his friends and kept her. But does this mean he's into her? BTW, i only brought them together because I thought it would be safer if they became friends first - then if nothing happened, I could meet him in person, he would meet her in person too, and I could relax that nothing would happen between them.

[carhill]

Live relationships in the real world. Electrons will give you cancer.

[threebyfate]

No, I'm the single girl.

Yes, I would work on my marriage. But if I confront him now, he'll know that I have access to everything and I'll never again know what he's been up to. Maybe I just need to work on my marriage from my side and never let him know what - and how - I know.

michg, what are you, married or single?

[michg]

I used to be married and now I'm single. Sorry if that wasn't obvious by my failure to also post my last post...

[Mme. Chaucer]

Well, there are conflicting stories going on here ... but really, the whole thing sounds utterly ridiculous. Who cares? Don't any of you actually have something to do in real life?

[Mme. Chaucer]

Okay, now I am really confused. I checked your past posts, OP, and evidently you did have a husband as recently as February 16th. The thread you started that day sounds a lot like this one. Why don't you just post what is actually going on, if you really want input from others. You're anonymous here.

 

Whether "single man" is "into" "married woman," one can't really tell from your examples. What I'd like to know is WHY you "brought them together" to somehow control their interaction before you were to meet him. Please explicate!

 

Since he "unfriended" you on FB, it seems evident that he is not interested in you, anyway ... so what difference does it make to you if he likes "married woman" or not?

 

Do you actually KNOW these people?

[silic0ntoad]

Okay, now I am really confused. I checked your past posts, OP, and evidently you did have a husband as recently as February 16th. The thread you started that day sounds a lot like this one. Why don't you just post what is actually going on, if you really want input from others. You're anonymous here.

 

Whether "single man" is "into" "married woman," one can't really tell from your examples. What I'd like to know is WHY you "brought them together" to somehow control their interaction before you were to meet him. Please explicate!

 

Since he "unfriended" you on FB, it seems evident that he is not interested in you, anyway ... so what difference does it make to you if he likes "married woman" or not?

 

Do you actually KNOW these people?

 

I agree. THis whole things stinks.

[make me believe]

Wow, this is so incredibly juvenile! Who cares if he is into the single girl, the married girl, or neither of them?? I gather that since you're the single one in question, you are interested in this guy and want to know if he's into your friend? Why don't you just ask him? Or, since he is ignoring your emails and saying nothing will ever happen between the two of you, why don't you just let him go and move on with your life?? I highly doubt this shady guy is worth the time you're investing into facebook stalking him and thinking about this situation..

[seibert253]

All I know is that if I were married girls H, single guy and I would be having and little "chat"

The W and I would also be having a come to Jesus meeting.

 

Everything else is immaterial AFAIC