When?

[changeisgood]

When do we as adults take responsibility for our own actions and quit whining about what others have done to us... or don't do for us?

 

When do we become accountable?

[Doing it Since '78]

When do we as adults take responsibility for our own actions and quit whining about what others have done to us... or don't do for us?

 

When do we become accountable?

 

When we start acting like adults

[TaraMaiden]

When we finally get it through our heads that our happiness, contentment, fulfilment and serenity is not dependent on anyone else, or their love or their presence.

Whilst we place that expectation onto the shoulders of a significant other, we will always, but always be disappointed.

When we finally get that we are the Authors, directors, editors and producers of our own Life film, then - and only then - will we get the plot and happy ending we seek.

[aimchase]

When we finally get it through our heads that our happiness, contentment, fulfilment and serenity is not dependent on anyone else, or their love or their presence.

Whilst we place that expectation onto the shoulders of a significant other, we will always, but always be disappointed.

When we finally get that we are the Authors, directors, editors and producers of our own Life film, then - and only then - will we get the plot and happy ending we seek.

 

That's a fantastic post. So, so true.

[spriggig]

Part of it happens when other people stop putting up their BS.