better this way?

[insearchof]

ive recently told one of my good friends how i felt about her and that i really liked her...she just wants to remain friends and she consideres me her very BEST friend but i dont know if i can continue on with that cause it kills me not being able to be with her....shes practically all i think about and me knowing that i can never have her makes it even worse....i mean..shes a great friend but shes actually tearin me apart and she doesnt even know it....i jsut met her 5 months ago so its not like ive known her all my life but she still considers me her best friend......i was wonderign if it would be best for me to just try to go about my life without her like it used to be and just not talk to her anymore or be around her anymore and hopefully ill get over her? i mean..shes a wonderful person but it just kills me when im with her and around her knowing that i never have a chance.....

[lost_in_chgo]

Maybe give it some time, she might come around now that she knows how you feel. BUT DONT TRY TO CONVINCE HER.

 

I'd think it better to try that before giving up altogether.

[lau1247]

my friend we're not that far away.. hang in there.. read my story you'll soon see that miracle do happen but you gotta stick by it..

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t31443/

 

Talk to her occasionally.. whenever there's an occasion, please her with what you know that's she'll absolutely love when you talk to her.. things that are rare or things that only you have first before it comes to market will be great idea..

Don't move on to someone else unless you are sure.. Don't make the kind of move like I did..

 

But come to think of it, if I hadn't said that I like someone else she would not have told me she realised it all too late..

 

That's the way people is they don't realise what they could have cherish until it's too late.. let her know of that point I'm making..

 

Andy