bubbles5 Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 Well one of my frnd went to usa last year.Since the day when I came to know he is leaving i wasnt quite happy abt it so i didnt talk much, Anyways now he is there in usa we both see online each other but dont talk as ealier we used to talk.Now stop talking since online. We stay online for hours but dont even care to say hello or anything. This thing happening past few months I doubt that we have broken frndship due to distance, I dont know how to start talking again with him ,its very awkard n our main thing is EGO thats very hard it clashes,.. I dont know he doesnt talk much like he used to.. Link to post Share on other sites
carvidep Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 Hey Bubbles, Travelling to a different country is a big change for anyone. Your friend is surely experiencing many new things and meeting new friends. I'd say don't be afraid to talk to him. You say the program you usually use doesn't work very well? Send him an e-mail. Ask him to share a few stories of his adventures with you. My bet is that you haven't lost a friend, he's just experiencing a big change and a new culture right now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bubbles5 Posted March 19, 2010 Author Share Posted March 19, 2010 That can be a case but still it seems like we have stop talking completely as if we dont care anymore..But i dont know staying online for hours n yet I m so unable to talk bcos of months of gap n I have no idea what he is going through as if i have left it,, He also doesnt express things that well.. Link to post Share on other sites
Meaplus3 Posted March 19, 2010 Share Posted March 19, 2010 That can be a case but still it seems like we have stop talking completely as if we dont care anymore..But i dont know staying online for hours n yet I m so unable to talk bcos of months of gap n I have no idea what he is going through as if i have left it,, He also doesnt express things that well.. Hi bubbles. I imagine the strain of a long distance R is tough enough and without proper communication and plans to be together on a more permanent basis.. IMO.. the R can go down the tubes very quick. I think you need to ask yourself what you really want from this R? and also find a way to get him commnuicating. Communication is the key. And not just silly littled flirty message back and forth, but serious talks about where the R is heading. Hope this helps. Best of luck. Mea:) Link to post Share on other sites
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