Taramere Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 I find it all VERY predictable.. Sandra is 45... Jessie is 40.. If she wanted a "monogamous guy" perhaps she should have married an older man.. Perhaps 50-55... Let me guess. If it weren't for the fact that Gisele Bündchen has offered to give up her modelling career in order to darn your socks and prepare simple yet nutritious meals in your kitchenette, you might be willing to give old Sandra a bash. Link to post Share on other sites
Spark1111 Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Fidelity is a choice, regardless of your biological inclinations, IMHO. Want to be loved, cherished, emotionally supported through thick and thin, sickness and health, good times and bad? Than fidelity is key to keeping that type of relationship from blowing apart. Infidelity is a choice. Want to play the field and have sex and sexting with a lizard lady, porn stars and strippers? Than this is the fallout of those actions; to have one, you lose the other. Can't have both. Whether you are a Man or a Woman. Need constant attention, flattery, sexual gratification from many partners? Unable to support your wife during the 11 months she worked on a project that epitomized the pinnacle of her acting career? Couldn't reciprocate the love and support she shows you in helping you gain custody of your child and is helping to raise your children from two previous marriage? You are not ready to marry. You don't deserve to be. Link to post Share on other sites
calizaggy Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 I don't see any big loss for Jessie.. He can still pull women in their 20's, and his wife is nearing 50. If Sandra is in love with here career, perhaps SHE is not ready to be married? I mean this woman was not even married until 40? Link to post Share on other sites
Spark1111 Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 I don't see any big loss for Jessie.. He can still pull women in their 20's, and his wife is nearing 50. If Sandra is in love with here career, perhaps SHE is not ready to be married? I mean this woman was not even married until 40? IDK....would the inverse be true? Should a woman NEVER marry an ambitious man with a high-powered career because he could be gone for long periods of time, forcing her to find young male strippers covered in tattoos for sex? Do you think age is a factor in attraction, and the younger the partner, the more prestigious for the cheater? You sound.....young to me. Bang all the hot young bodies you want to, if that is your desire and seems to be the shallow guideline you premise for your partners.....this way all your buddies can really ENVY you, which I think, seems to be of importance to you. But please.....don't marry. You don't deserve that type of relationship. You have neither the maturity or the compassion to know the depth of that sacred intimacy with one partner who loves, supports and desires you through thick and thin; who chooses you to build a life and future with. If you get off the blog and begin to read some news media, you will discover that men like Jesse James, Bill Clinton, Mark Sanderson, John Edwards, and Tiger Woods are currently considered.....jokes in the morality department. They, maybe like you, are not "man enough" to be ever happily married. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 I don't see any big loss for Jessie.. He can still pull women in their 20's, and his wife is nearing 50. Jesse may see it differently. He may have percieved a lot of value in his relationship, and be kicking himself right now for screwing it up. Or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Johnny M Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Let me guess. If it weren't for the fact that Gisele Bündchen has offered to give up her modelling career in order to darn your socks and prepare simple yet nutritious meals in your kitchenette, you might be willing to give old Sandra a bash. No need to take things personally (I'm guessing you're in your 40s yourself?) Calizzagy is right - it was all oh so predictable. Younger guy and older woman is a bad combination to begin with, but when a younger guy also happens to be a celebrity 'bad boy'....things like that only lead to happy endings in romance novels. Jesse James married Bullock because she was a bigger celebrity than him and he knew that their marriage would get a lot of publicity. Any idiot could see that. He got what he wanted and now he's moving on with his life. I am trying really hard to muster some sympathy for the "all-American girl" Sandra Bullock, but I must say that I'm having a hell of a time doing so. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 I don't see any big loss for Jessie.. He can still pull women in their 20's, and his wife is nearing 50. If Sandra is in love with here career, perhaps SHE is not ready to be married? I mean this woman was not even married until 40? The guy is reckless... He marry's SB then he loses interest in his own tv show Monster House to the point that TLC canceled it and he wasn't even present for the finalle show.. Then last year he creates a show dead or alive Jesse James that runs on the spike Channel and it is him doing death defying stunts.. The guy is a mess... He is obviously on some crash course with his life .. mid life crisis anyone ? He messed up his marriage for an adrenaline rush.. The tattoo chick wasn't even a friend of his... she myspaced him.. He is famous.. he did another reckless thing by even talking to her let alone banging her.. She had an obvious plan to be famous and she is using her 15 mins now.. The guy needs some therapy to figure out why he messes shiot in his life up.. SB and he were in the process of getting full custody of another one of his kids.. What a chump the guy is... Link to post Share on other sites
Twenty-ten Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Jesse James married Bullock because she was a bigger celebrity than him and he knew that their marriage would get a lot of publicity. Any idiot could see that. He got what he wanted and now he's moving on with his life. I am trying really hard to muster some sympathy for the "all-American girl" Sandra Bullock, but I must say that I'm having a hell of a time doing so. We'll see about that. He is going to move on like K-fed moved on after destroying Britney's life? He is an obese disgusting trailer park pig with no money, no life, no credibility, no talent and no one likes him. Jesse James cut from the exact same cloth. He had his chance at a good life, he blew it, and he will never have that chance again simply because he is not capable of having a good life unless someone makes his bed for him. You call getting embroiled with sewage moving on? I've seen higher quality material in a public toilet of a football stadium. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 SB and he were in the process of getting full custody of another one of his kids.. And, if for that reason alone, he'll be kicking himself for screwing it up. It isn't all about the hottest piece you can score forever. If it is still all about that when there are kids to consider, there's something seriously wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
Stung Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Jesse may see it differently. He may have percieved a lot of value in his relationship, and be kicking himself right now for screwing it up. Or not. If nothing else, he has in all likelihood negatively impacted his custody battle, and the life of his youngest daughter who has really only known SB as her mother-figure. This is a big loss, whether he genuinely valued his marriage or not. Personally I suspect that he did value his marriage...he seems to be on a downward spiral of self-sabotage, damaging everything he loves. This speaks to a badly marred psyche. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 He is an obese disgusting trailer park pig with no money, His west coast chopper company that he built does like 9 million a year. He owns a restaurant and many other business ventures.. The guy is rich... just not as rich as her.. Her net worth is around 85 million His net worth is around 35 million, that isn't no money.. But you are right about him being a pig... Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 If nothing else, he has in all likelihood negatively impacted his custody battle, and the life of his youngest daughter who has really only known SB as her mother-figure. This is genuinely sad I don't absolve James for his actions, but I have compassion for his predicament at this point. It's a bed of his own making, yes, but damn. And, yes, I have tremendous compassion for SB, who has a lot to lose in the step-parenting situation. And this is exactly why many people don't cheat, even if it would be fun. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 I think Jesse used very bad judgement.. and was used by this anonymous tattoo model.. she is NOT anonymous anymore... He's the fool now. This girl will get rich just selling her story.. I have no sympathy for him... And when people think it's always the OW that get used.. HA! Link to post Share on other sites
Twenty-ten Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 His west coast chopper company that he built does like 9 million a year. He owns a restaurant and many other business ventures.. The guy is rich... just not as rich as her.. Her net worth is around 85 million His net worth is around 35 million, that isn't no money.. But you are right about him being a pig... Oh no I was referring to K-fed. Sure Jesse makes money, I read he has some burger joint and of course his bike business but yeah count him in the group of pigs, low-life lost souls that don't know something good if it smacks them in the face. I am sure financially he will do just fine, he just wasn't cut out to be with someone of SB's caliber, he is better suited with a porn star or someone of the subculture he is from. He and Sandra are in completely different leagues despite their net worth. He is not man enough for that, he should stick to his own kind. I saw him on Celeb Apprentice, and I watched the entire show while he was on, believe me the guy is as boorish as what he has portrayed in his latest actions. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Oh no I was referring to K-fed. oh.. my mistake.. I misread it... Link to post Share on other sites
calizaggy Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Sandra needs to move on have have fun making movies and being single..(What is she 45 now?) I actually feel bad for Jessie.. Marrying this older lady, then on top of it she is never even around.. Yet he is not allowed to have sex either..Go to bed every day alone.. Life goes by quickly.. And life is made of tradeoffs.. Sandra could easily retire and be with the man she loves, all day and night, whomever that man is.. Or she can take off for a year and make a movie (neglect her husband) to further her career, and another woman might entertain her husband.. Cannot have everything.. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 You know.. after all those stories about famous male celebs and politicians, etc...(ex. Tiger, Clinton, etc..) that got caught and dragged in the mud for their infidelity ... you'd think that they'd be more careful... or not cheat at all.. since they have so much to lose... Hell no.. they don't... Link to post Share on other sites
Stung Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 This is genuinely sad I don't absolve James for his actions, but I have compassion for his predicament at this point. It's a bed of his own making, yes, but damn. And, yes, I have tremendous compassion for SB, who has a lot to lose in the step-parenting situation. And this is exactly why many people don't cheat, even if it would be fun. Agreed. I am a stepmother and my relationship with my stepdaughter is very important to both of us. Fortunately for me were anything to happen to my marriage with her father she would still necessarily be in my life as we are tied forever through her baby brother, my son. Sandra has no such tie to ensure she does not lose all contact with Jesse's kids forever. She has spoken openly about how much those children mean to her, she was willing to take on full custody of the youngest; I cannot imagine how painful this must be for her, knowing that the decision to divorce the cheating, lying husband who exposed her to public humiliation galore could also result in the complete loss from her life of children whom she has cared for deeply. Rock, hard place. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetjasmine Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Sandra needs to move on have have fun making movies and being single..(What is she 45 now?) I actually feel bad for Jessie.. Marrying this older lady, then on top of it she is never even around.. Yet he is not allowed to have sex either..Go to bed every day alone.. Life goes by quickly.. And life is made of tradeoffs.. Sandra could easily retire and be with the man she loves, all day and night, whomever that man is.. Or she can take off for a year and make a movie (neglect her husband) to further her career, and another woman might entertain her husband.. Cannot have everything.. Yeah, I feel so bad for him. It's like having a partner in another country and expecting that they be faithful. How selfish. Link to post Share on other sites
Twenty-ten Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 I actually feel bad for Jessie.. Marrying this older lady, then on top of it she is never even around.. Yet he is not allowed to have sex either..Go to bed every day alone.. Well I dunnow about that, it works for you and your Brazilian girlfriend (and don't think for a second she is not servicing the locals while she is away from you) so why can't it work for a celeb couple? You find ways to cope and make it work. Link to post Share on other sites
Taramere Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 No need to take things personally (I'm guessing you're in your 40s yourself?) Calizzagy is right -. Calizaggy is using this entire thread to encourage women in the belief that they cannot trust men, and that men will always lie to them. Calizaggy is also claiming, in this thread, that his girlfriend is a Brazilian television model. I don't respect people who tell juvenile lies in a futile attempt to impress complete strangers on the Internet. If that translates as taking things too personally, so be it. Link to post Share on other sites
calizaggy Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 . She has spoken openly about how much those children mean to her, she was willing to take on full custody of the youngest; I cannot imagine how painful this must be for her, knowing that the decision to divorce the cheating, lying husband who exposed her to public humiliation galore could also result in the complete loss from her life of children whom she has cared for deeply. Rock, hard place. LOL Yeah she loves those kids soo much, and misses them sooo much that she takes off for 11 months to make a movie.. Then what next year? Another movie somewhere? Yeah the kids are really her top priority in life.. Actually my gf is a psychologist but WAS a model on tv and in magazines.. She is 32. Link to post Share on other sites
Johnny M Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 We'll see about that. He is going to move on like K-fed moved on after destroying Britney's life? He is an obese disgusting trailer park pig with no money, no life, no credibility, no talent and no one likes him. Jesse James cut from the exact same cloth. He had his chance at a good life, he blew it, and he will never have that chance again simply because he is not capable of having a good life unless someone makes his bed for him. You call getting embroiled with sewage moving on? I've seen higher quality material in a public toilet of a football stadium. I really don't give a sh*t what happens to Jesse James, but in the interest of accuracy it needs to be pointed out that he was semi-famous before marrying Bullock and has a profitable business, so the comparison to K-Fed is not entirely fair. As for Britney....again, having a very hard time mustering any sympathy for that trailer park queen. She ruined her own life (but then again, she's borderline retarded, so maybe it's not her fault after all). Link to post Share on other sites
Twenty-ten Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Calizaggy is using this entire thread to encourage women in the belief that they cannot trust men, and that men will always lie to them. Calizaggy is also claiming, in this thread, that his girlfriend is a Brazilian television model. I don't respect people who tell juvenile lies in a futile attempt to impress complete strangers on the Internet. If that translates as taking things too personally, so be it. But that is why he does it, he is projecting his own tendencies to fabricate stories as a warning for onlookers, that all men do this. He fails to understand that we are all very aware that it is not all men who are like this, it is only the mentally disturbed ones. Link to post Share on other sites
calizaggy Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 But that is why he does it, he is projecting his own tendencies to fabricate stories as a warning for onlookers, that all men do this. He fails to understand that we are all very aware that it is not all men who are like this, it is only the mentally disturbed ones. Why the animosity towards me? It's not my fault jesse cheated, lol.. Obviously, you women must be living on another planet if you are grown adults and think men are going to turn away sex thrown at them after their wives neglect them to pursue a career. In reality he is probably the cool down to earth guy, and she is the narcissist in love with her fame and career. Link to post Share on other sites
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