"Nice" girls, like Sandra Bullock....

[Spark1111]

Jeez, Idk....If I married a high-pressured career exec who always traveled, well then what could he expect by putting his career before the marriage?

 

Of course I would need some young hot stud with lizard-like tattoos to service me sexually when he was away!

 

Hahahahahahahahaha!

[St. Nick]

I was going to make the exact same comment about women who have to "demand" to be treated well. I figured I wouldn't bother with his ridiculous comments anymore. But I have to say this:

 

I lived in South America for a few years, I have been to Brazil and traveled extensively through the continent. Let me tell you a little something about Brazil. Brazil is is a very poor country, the majority of women there are very poor, they dress badly and wear tacky make-up. The dental floss bikini is really the only saving grace for why men love the beaches of Rio, but the running joke in South America among men is that Brazilian women tend to look great from the back on the beach and then once you catch up to them and they turn around, you are spooked for life.

 

The real women of Brazil do not resemble anything close to the elite top models they export to North America and Europe. People base their romanticized views based on that But if you actually got here you will see that it is a complete misrepresentation of what the average woman really looks like.

 

Brazil is also the land of the trannies but most importantly Brazil is grossly misogynistic as a culture. It is no wonder the poor women there have to demand to be treated with any respect, they simply do not exist other than to make babies.

 

Any woman (or person for that matter) who has to "demand" anything is already on an inferior playing field.

 

 

He could not have chosen a more accurate word to depict how he sees his place as a man, and how he sees the woman's place. 'Nough said.

Are you trying to imply the women in the United States are all hotties? Please. Have you ever been to Massachusetts and seen the women? Sure, there are hotties from outta state attending the prestigious universities, but the average women on the street are sooooooo lame it's sad. I couldn't believe it. The women born and raised there DO NOT raise any eyebrows, same thing goes for Philly and Baltimore definitely. I can also say the same about Chicago, the city I've lived in for the past 10 years. When buddies from outta town visit, the usual response about the women is, "You know St. Nick, the women in this city really aren't up to much". If I had a nickel for every time I heard that I'd make Bill Gates look like a pauper.

 

And plastic surgery, you think it's just in Brazil? Are you serious? They have American women who actually go to South American countries to get their surgeries done cuz it's cheaper. There are sexy women on the streets of NYC, but many of those women had a ton of surgery and botox to look good, same goes for LA.

 

American woman crack me up when they try to make themselves to look like they're all that compared to women in other countries. I see through the lies and the botox.

[threebyfate]

Jeez, Idk....If I married a high-pressured career exec who always traveled, well then what could he expect by putting his career before the marriage?

 

Of course I would need some young hot stud with lizard-like tattoos to service me sexually when he was away!

 

Hahahahahahahahaha!

Okay, so here we go. The only way to ensure that no one ever cheats, is to be within 1" of your partner, 24/7! The visual image of billions of people, stuck like glue together, mincing around on the streets is killing me!

[calizaggy]

Actually if a couple is in their mid 40's, is worth 85 million, do not have kids together, who cares if they have sex with other people? If the husband takes off for a few months I really don't care if she decides to cheat, or he cheats, etc.

 

If cheating bothers Sandra soo much, she should be at home servicing Jesse..

[threebyfate]

Actually if a couple is in their mid 40's, is worth 85 million, do not have kids together, who cares if they have sex with other people? If the husband takes off for a few months I really don't care if she decides to cheat, or he cheats, etc.

 

If cheating bothers Sandra soo much, she should be at home servicing Jesse..

You just get more and more ridiculous. Perhaps Jesse should be following Sandra around from shoot to shoot, servicing her, just like he vowed he would...

[Woggle]

This is the first thread I am actually on the women's side. Please do not think that Cali represents the opinions of most men.

[Twenty-ten]

Are you trying to imply the women in the United States are all hotties? Please. Have you ever been to Massachusetts and seen the women? Sure, there are hotties from outta state attending the prestigious universities, but the average women on the street are sooooooo lame it's sad. I couldn't believe it. The women born and raised there DO NOT raise any eyebrows, same thing goes for Philly and Baltimore definitely. I can also say the same about Chicago, the city I've lived in for the past 10 years. When buddies from outta town visit, the usual response about the women is, "You know St. Nick, the women in this city really aren't up to much". If I had a nickel for every time I heard that I'd make Bill Gates look like a pauper.

 

And plastic surgery, you think it's just in Brazil? Are you serious? They have American women who actually go to South American countries to get their surgeries done cuz it's cheaper. There are sexy women on the streets of NYC, but many of those women had a ton of surgery and botox to look good, same goes for LA.

 

American woman crack me up when they try to make themselves to look like they're all that compared to women in other countries. I see through the lies and the botox.

No, what I am implying and already stated rather clearly is that a lot of women in Brazil are not all that, they are quite poor and don't look as good as some "imagine". There are beautiful people in all parts of the world, just as there are not so attractive people. I also said that the reason any woman would demand to be treated with respect is because you are not getting it otherwise. No big coincidence since Brazil is highly misogynistic.

 

For the record I am European, I live in Canada, but was born in Europe, and lived in South America for a few years. Due to my father's work we moved around a lot as I was growing up. It's not my "American" attitude, it is a worldly one, that comes from personal experience and having lived in different places and experiencing different cultures.

 

In the 80's when I lived in south American the guys used to love vacationing in Brazil because the women were known to be the "easiest" women in all of South America compared to other surrounding countries.

 

Now the most beautiful women hands down were in Colombia and Venezuela, and the most stylish were in Argentina. Brazil was just a place where guys would go to have a good time, if you catch my drift....

 

so I just want to set the record straight about what some freaks say about how women in North America don't respect themselves and deserve to be cheated on and defends women in South America, when Brazilian chicks are known to be the sluttiest two timing little hoes in the world. LMAO

 

 

 

Actually if a couple is in their mid 40's, is worth 85 million, do not have kids together, who cares if they have sex with other people? If the husband takes off for a few months I really don't care if she decides to cheat, or he cheats, etc.

 

If cheating bothers Sandra soo much, she should be at home servicing Jesse..

 

 

And who cares what you believe is good for other people?!?!

 

Marriage believes that two people will remain faithful to one another for better or for worse. When people marry they make a promise infront of god and all their loved ones and friends that they will remain faithful to each other, if they don't then then that vow is broken.

 

Jesse broke the vow, and ruined the marriage. He cheated he is to blame that's it no working around it.

Edited March 22, 2010 by Twenty-ten

[calizaggy]

This is the first thread I am actually on the women's side. Please do not think that Cali represents the opinions of most men.

 

 

Let's see what the experts say..

 

Cheating spouse statistics confirm that 50 and 70 percent of married men (between 38 and 53 million men) have cheated or will cheat on their wives. One study found that 2/3 of the wives (26 to 36 million women) whose husbands were cheating had no idea their husbands were having an affair - largely because they failed to recognize the telltale signs.

[Twenty-ten]

Yeah I also found statistics that say that a lie actually hides the truth.

 

Imagine that, a lie being perceived as truth.

[Taramere]

Let's see what the experts say..

 

Cheating spouse statistics confirm that 50 and 70 percent of married men (between 38 and 53 million men) have cheated or will cheat on their wives.

 

Do these statistics wear large, cheap hoops in their ears and frown thoughtfully over a set of tarot cards?

[calizaggy]

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so I just want to set the record straight about what some freaks say about how women in North America don't respect themselves and deserve to be cheated on and defends women in South America, when Brazilian chicks are known to be the sluttiest two timing little hoes in the world. LMAO

 

 

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Actually studies show the easiest women in the world are from nordic countries..

 

I would also say it is extremely easy to get laid anytime in the states.. Women just have sex "for fun" with anyone and everyone..

 

As for brazil, prostitution is legal, and in places like Rio most of if not all the hookers are from places like the interior of Brazil or the north east. Extremely poor girls move to the tourist centers to make money and send it back home.

 

The reality is, for guys who step outside out of Copacabana, they are not getting laid, as the "non hookers" do not just have sex "for fun" like American gals.. Funny how American women think brazilian girls are easy, and everyone in Brazil thinks American girls are sluts/druggies/alcoholics/materialistic.

[White Flower]

It just goes to show that no matter how perfect the betrayed person is there is always a chance they could be cheated on unfortunately. Nobody has the assurance it won't happen to them and should be grateful when it hasn't. Even when it has, sometimes the A is a good wake-up call for the MP. At that point we can leave the cheater or get help for them and the M.

 

It is really not about how beautiful or good the BS is. It can be that the WS has problems within himself or the BS is just not right for him even if she is a wonderful human being.

[Twenty-ten]

Statistics also show that when it is not so easy to get laid in America, the land of free sex, some men have to resort to prostitutes from third world countries.

[calizaggy]

Statistics also show that when it is not so easy to get laid in America, the land of free sex, some men have to resort to prostitutes from third world countries.

 

Prostitution is rampant in the USA. Anyway, most American women have sex on the first, second, or third date these days..So for American women being easy is "being sexually empowered", and for other women it is "Being easy sluts"?

[threebyfate]

Do these statistics wear large, cheap hoops in their ears and frown thoughtfully over a set of tarot cards?

As an FYI, the 70% statistic, is one of the Internet's most misquoted statistic. It came from Cathy Meyer on about.com and she stated that it was 60% men and 40% women. Somehow, someone misquoted her to say 70% and it's been flooded all over the Internet, ever since.

 

The interesting part is when you read her article, it doesn't provide any sources for her statistics.

 

I wonder if she misquoted the Buss and Shackleford statistic which was 30% women and 60% men.

 

For fun, I sourced the Buss and Shackleford statistic and lo' and behold, it's also been misquoted on the Intardnet. It quotes 30 - 60% men and 20 - 50% women.

 

http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/Homepage/Group/BussLAB/pdffiles/susceptibility%20to%20infidelity-jrp-1997.pdf

Edited March 22, 2010 by threebyfate

[Lizzie60]

I"m sure Tiger will be glad another 'sensational' affair is out in the open... that will cut him some slack for a while..

[calizaggy]

As an FYI, the 70% statistic, is one of the Internet's most misquoted statistic. It came from Cathy Meyer on about.com and she stated that it was 60% men and 40% women. Somehow, someone misquoted her to say 70% and it's been flooded all over the Internet, ever since.

 

The interesting part is when you read her article, it doesn't provide any sources for her statistics.

 

I wonder if she misquoted the Buss and Shackleford statistic which was 30% women and 60% men.

 

For fun, I sourced the Buss and Shackleford statistic and lo' and behold, it's also been misquoted on the Intardnet. It quotes 30 - 60% men and 20 - 50% women.

 

http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/Homepage/Group/BussLAB/pdffiles/susceptibility%20to%20infidelity-jrp-1997.pdf

 

 

Sorry, I don't click on links i do not know the source of..

 

Let's hear from another expert..

 

Why They Cheat

The No.1 reason: Men crave sexual “variety,” according to David Buss, professor of psychology at the University of Texas and author of The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating (BasicBooks).

 

“They’ve evolved the desire to be with different women,” he says.

 

That’s because it’s very simple for men to reproduce (one act of sex versus nine months of pregnancy for women), so to create as many offspring as possible they’re biologically programmed to mate with many women.

 

“The ‘payoff’ in reproductive currencies [kids] of a short-term mating strategy generally has been higher for men than women,” Buss says.

 

So after thousands of generations, “this has forged in the male brain a desire for sexual variety.”

 

Other top reasons men cheat? They’re unhappy with their mates - and extramarital sex is cheaper and easier to get these days, Buss says.

 

And "power wives" beware: Being married to a high-profile guy ups the odds he’ll wander.

“Women are attracted to men who have power and status, so public figures usually have plenty of opportunity,” Buss says.

[threebyfate]

Sorry, I don't click on links i do not know the source of..

 

Let's hear from another expert..

 

Why They Cheat

The No.1 reason: Men crave sexual “variety,” according to David Buss, professor of psychology at the University of Texas and author of The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating (BasicBooks).

 

“They’ve evolved the desire to be with different women,” he says.

 

That’s because it’s very simple for men to reproduce (one act of sex versus nine months of pregnancy for women), so to create as many offspring as possible they’re biologically programmed to mate with many women.

 

“The ‘payoff’ in reproductive currencies [kids] of a short-term mating strategy generally has been higher for men than women,” Buss says.

 

So after thousands of generations, “this has forged in the male brain a desire for sexual variety.”

 

Other top reasons men cheat? They’re unhappy with their mates - and extramarital sex is cheaper and easier to get these days, Buss says.

 

And "power wives" beware: Being married to a high-profile guy ups the odds he’ll wander.

 

“Women are attracted to men who have power and status, so public figures usually have plenty of opportunity,” Buss says.

Umm...this is the same expert who's statistics are being misquoted.

[St. Nick]

No, what I am implying and already stated rather clearly is that a lot of women in Brazil are not all that, they are quite poor and don't look as good as some "imagine". There are beautiful people in all parts of the world, just as there are not so attractive people. I also said that the reason any woman would demand to be treated with respect is because you are not getting it otherwise. No big coincidence since Brazil is highly misogynistic.

 

For the record I am European, I live in Canada, but was born in Europe, and lived in South America for a few years. Due to my father's work we moved around a lot as I was growing up. It's not my "American" attitude, it is a worldly one, that comes from personal experience and having lived in different places and experiencing different cultures.

 

In the 80's when I lived in south American the guys used to love vacationing in Brazil because the women were known to be the "easiest" women in all of South America compared to other surrounding countries.

 

Now the most beautiful women hands down were in Colombia and Venezuela, and the most stylish were in Argentina. Brazil was just a place where guys would go to have a good time, if you catch my drift....

 

so I just want to set the record straight about what some freaks say about how women in North America don't respect themselves and deserve to be cheated on and defends women in South America, when Brazilian chicks are known to be the sluttiest two timing little hoes in the world. LMAO

Can you read? Where in my post did I say you, specifically, were an American? Really, tell me.

 

Cali was comparing Brazilian women to American and you responded to that, and I was responding to that. I thought all three of us were comparing Brazilian women to American women? Since when is some Euro chick living in Canada part of the discussion? I don't care about that. Hell, I don't care about Finnish chick living in Bangladesh neither, cuz that's not part of the discussion.

 

And you lived in South America for a few years? How much of that was spent in Brazil? How would a few years time in South America qualify you to say that Brazilian women are the sluttiest, two-timers on the planet?

 

And you think men are the only ones who engage in sex tourism? That's a laugh. Women do it too: it's big in Jamaica, Cuba, Costa Rica, etc. British women are engaging in sex tourism in Kenya as we speak. And some of them return to the British Isles with the AIDS virus:

 

http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSN2638979720071126

[Twenty-ten]

C

And you lived in South America for a few years? How much of that was spent in Brazil? How would a few years time in South America qualify you to say that Brazilian women are the sluttiest, two-timers on the planet?

 

 

Whatever I pull out of my butt I should be able to use as qualified stats, that's exactly what czaggy does, so why should the rules be any different for me?

[threebyfate]

Whatever I pull out of my butt I should be able to use as qualified stats, that's exactly what czaggy does, so why should the rules be any different for me?

Okay, now that was funny!

[Twenty-ten]

Okay, now that was funny!

 

 

I mean the guy has said so many ridiculous things in one topic and he is all over the place, first it's all men cheat, then it is just men who go out with older women, then it is men who go out with American women, then it is all men need variety, then it is simple biology, then it is a man who has a stay-home younger wife doesn't cheat....

 

I think you said it best, he obviously had his heart broken by an older American woman and he clearly never got over it hence all the dumb-ass things he has said in this thread.

[calizaggy]

I mean the guy has said so many ridiculous things in one topic and he is all over the place, first it's all men cheat, then it is just men who go out with older women, then it is men who go out with American women, then it is all men need variety, then it is simple biology, then it is a man who has a stay-home younger wife doesn't cheat....

 

.

 

 

I never said any of those things by themselves.. Of course all men do not cheat, as all men do not have the option..

 

I never said it is just men who date older women..

 

I never said it is just men that date American women.,

 

Yes, all men want variety..And yes it is simple biology.

[Jersey Shortie]

Why They Cheat

The No.1 reason: Men crave sexual “variety,” according to David Buss, professor of psychology at the University of Texas and author of The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating (BasicBooks).

 

“They’ve evolved the desire to be with different women,” he says.

 

That’s because it’s very simple for men to reproduce (one act of sex versus nine months of pregnancy for women), so to create as many offspring as possible they’re biologically programmed to mate with many women.

 

“The ‘payoff’ in reproductive currencies [kids] of a short-term mating strategy generally has been higher for men than women,” Buss says.

 

So after thousands of generations, “this has forged in the male brain a desire for sexual variety.”

 

Other top reasons men cheat? They’re unhappy with their mates - and extramarital sex is cheaper and easier to get these days, Buss says.

 

And "power wives" beware: Being married to a high-profile guy ups the odds he’ll wander.

 

“Women are attracted to men who have power and status, so public figures usually have plenty of opportunity,” Buss says.

 

It doesn't matter why someone *cheats*. It comes down to the fact that they are ultimately an adult capable of making their own choices and the reasons behind what they choose to do matter very little in the final outcome. It might be the reason why men cheat but you use it as a shield and defense on why it's okay to cheat. And that is not only wrong but cruel.

[burning 4 revenge]

I never said any of those things by themselves.. Of course all men do not cheat, as all men do not have the option..

 

I never said it is just men who date older women..

 

I never said it is just men that date American women.,

 

Yes, all men want variety..And yes it is simple biology.

.......................................... Edited March 23, 2010 by burning 4 revenge