Can't read this new guy..should I chill about it??

[AMN819]

Hey. Well, I need some advice. Over the weekend my friend and I went to meet some friends at a bar/restaurant to watch the football games. One of the guys we met there was with one of his friends who, I found to be very good looking. I caught the glancing over, but he never said anything to me. Then, I was talking to one of his friends about sports. I guess he was surprised that I was a sports fan, so he sat down next to me and started talking. He ended up giving me his phone number. I told he we were on our way to another bar to go have some drinks and he said he was gonna finish the secong game and he'd be up there. He wrote me a text message and said "sorry I will be there shortly". We hung out for a little and I left around 1am. He called me yesterday and I told him where I was going to be watching the game. He showed up and played a game of pool with us, finished the GB/Phi game and left (about 45 minutes). When he was leaving I kept joking with him not to go and he kept picking me up over his head and saying "I have to go, I have to get up early and I partied too much this weekend". He left and I text messaged him and said "Hey, having fun at the strip club? JK...btw, I was just joking about you leaving. I hope you didn't take me seriously. I didn't mean to freak you out." He wrote back.."I'm at home"..so I called him and said "did you get that whole message" he said "yeah, I knew you were kidding..so was I...It's cool. i'll talk to you later though." I said "d@mn, you're already hangin' up on me" and he said "well, it's kinda loud, call me when you aren't at the bar."

 

I called him about 10:45 and he didn't answer, so I sent him a text and said "RU asleep?" and he still didn't answer. Haven't gotten a response still. I told his friend who was there with us (he's a good friend of ours too) and he said "well, he came up here just to see you, so that's a good thing" My 2 other friends that were there said he was being pretty flirty, but I just didn't see it...not that much.

 

Should I just leave it alone and see if he calls? Or did I blow it? Could he just NOT be a phone person and was asleep last night???

[confused_and_worried]

You ..know ?? he did say he had to get up early the next day !! So just let it go and wait till he calls you...!!

If he does call you than he likes you ! ! ! If he doesn't than he probably has a girl at home and was just having fun during the weekend. So I would say just wait.

[AMN819]

I do know for a fact that he doesn't b/c my GOOD friends told me he was single. I trust them with my life. Not really concerned about that...

[moimeme]

I have to go, I have to get up early and I partied too much this weekend

 

The guy has to get up early and you keep calling him and messaging him? Maybe you should forget about him if you can't be considerate enough to let the guy sleep when he told you he needed to. Two calls and two text messages in one night is way too much, especially when he said he needed sleep. Don't be surprised if he doesn't call again.

[AMN819]

Maybe the "It's kinda loud, call me when you aren't at the bar" got me...Just a thought. Plus, he didn't have a problem text messaging me at 2/3am on Saturday when I went home to sleep.

 

BTW..people ask for ADVICE not harsh criticism!

[moimeme]

My advice is to not bug someone to bits when they've said they needed sleep. If someone did to me what you did to him, I'd think that person extremely rude.

[AMN819]

And I would agree with that. I text him not 20 minutes after he left (just incase he was home..I didn't want to wake him up)...he told me to call him when I left. It's the only reason I did!