joel Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 went out with this girl i met off a dating site. we went out total of 5x's. 3 wks ago she told me i could come over to her house and have a sleepover--since her parents are staying overnight in seattle for the day(we dont have privacy in the place with live at), well 4 days came close to that date and said maybe maybe-when i phoned her if i could come over, well 1 day before and she says No. when i told her shes just a tease for doing what she did-she said no and said she didnt want to rush into things-since she rush into a lot of things before and they never worked out. if your going to say it then stick with it. another thing i notice about her is she harassed me to get a phone plan(this one the 2nd date) since i was on prepaid minutes before. she said so we can talk and get to now each other better. well when i told her i got a plan-u think she would phone more, but she doesnt. she only calls me if i call her first. also everytime i call her she'll talk for like 3 minutes and then say oh i'll call you back. sometimes she will other times she wont and if she does its like 2hrs or even more afterwards. she tell me to make her a apple pie, or bring some cakes so she can taste them-all this on 2nd date. lol -i work as a chef what do you think of this?? Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 what do you think of this?? I think you are one of a few guys she is weighing against each other to see who will be the better catch. She may be talking to someone else, who over the past three weeks has worked his way up to a higher rung on her ladder, or at least high enough to negate an 'overnighter' with you. I'd put her interest level in you at around the 40% mark based on her nonchalant behavior and flaking out on the overnighter. Link to post Share on other sites
Whyme_wtf Posted March 23, 2010 Share Posted March 23, 2010 She is just not that into you. Link to post Share on other sites
pureinheart Posted March 23, 2010 Share Posted March 23, 2010 She is just not that into you. Sorry for the thread jack, although had to comment on your user name WM...it cracked me up because that is how I feel some of the time! Anyway, back to the topic... Is the "sleepover" the issue...if it was and she sensed that that is what you wanted her for then that is likely the reason she's not so into a R. Just speculating here... Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 23, 2010 Share Posted March 23, 2010 what do you think of this?? i think you're being given the run around Link to post Share on other sites
sumdude Posted March 24, 2010 Share Posted March 24, 2010 I think you are one of a few guys she is weighing against each other to see who will be the better catch. She may be talking to someone else, who over the past three weeks has worked his way up to a higher rung on her ladder, or at least high enough to negate an 'overnighter' with you. I'd put her interest level in you at around the 40% mark based on her nonchalant behavior and flaking out on the overnighter. Ding ding ding! We have a winner! Amongst other things? The fact that you actually agreed to the whole phone plan thing she came up with made her lose some respect for you. IOW you came off as a bit too eager to please. Link to post Share on other sites
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