KARMA: A question to those who have been betrayed

[learned2 love 2late]

Ok so cheating lieing affairs happen to most of us.

 

I just wanna hear some stories if any of you guys have seen your ex had karma happen to them??

 

Did u get revenge?

 

Did they come running back to you?

 

Did what happened to you happen to them before or after the relationship?

 

Have u heard or seen anything that made u feel better about being betrayed by the person you loved?

 

I suppose im just curious is the old sayin WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND true?

 

Tell me your experiences guys and girls please would give me a good insight as i have recently been betrayed.

 

Heres my version of KARMA which im am still waiting to see if i hear anything from my ex about my situation. in the mean while its been 3months and although i have my downs i am actually starting to feel less heartbreak after a very bad 2 months of depression.

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t224727/

[aerogurl87]

Well my situation is somewhat interesting. I cheated on my ex boyfriend and spent 6 months going through hell to get him back. And through those 6 months he cheated on me emotionally and physically. But the icing on the cake was when he left me for some random woman who was old enough to be his mother and told me I wasn't good enough for him. Ouch! Anyway, I learned my lesson and started dating again. I was with my ex boyfriend and was 100% faithful to him. Then him and I broke up. I got in contact with my ex and he told me he missed me, wanted me back, etc. I was willing to take him back although I knew he was a liar and a cheat (he even tried to get with my best friend behind my back) but in my distorted mind at the time I felt I deserved it, I needed to suffer for the pain I'd caused him. Anyway fast forward one month later, I had a mental breakthrough where I realized I didn't need to be in a relationship with someone who was so wishy washy and a hypocrite. That's when I found my current boyfriend and my ex and I lost contact again.

 

Well my ex contacted me again and I got the sob story that I knew was coming. Karma had come to me and now it had come to him as well. I found out that every girl he dated after me left him, he lost his job, wrecked his car, and was so depressed without me. He cried to me, told me he needed me (because although I was treated like crap for 6 months straight I was always there for him when he needed me) and said we should try to get back together again in the future. He asked me to wait for him again, and I told him it was too late. I had moved on to someone better, someone who I could have a clean slate with and was happy to be with. He called me a cunt and I told him that it sucked for him because he was the one that was still in love with this so called cunt. Haven't heard from him since.

 

In short, karma got me and him in the end. First me, and then him. The only difference is one of us learned from our mistake and the other one didn't because as far as I know he's still a habitual liar and cheater down to this day.

[Ophelia Rue]

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me multiple times. I found out by reading his Myspace private messages. It devastated me.

 

I don't know if this is really karma, but I think it's hilarious.

 

A year and a half after we broke up, I went to a bar downtown, and I saw this fat kid drinking beer at the bar. I looked closer and realized it was ex-bf! He must have gained at least 70-80 pounds, NO JOKE. He looked absolutely TERRIBLE...while I looked fantastic and had actually LOST weight, to say the least.

 

I also had my extraordinarily gorgeous new boyfriend on my arm.

 

I tried to be nice and say hi to him, but I was so tongue-tied at his obesity that I could barely speak more than a whispery "Hi" before bursting into hysterical laughter and running into the bathroom! :-D

 

Later that night, his man friend who was with him came up to me and said, "Ophelia, you should be nicer to him...he's had a really rough year. He got fired and he was with this girl who totally broke his heart a few months ago."

 

All I said was, "Well, if it's karma, then she is a nasty bitch, isn't she?" And grinned and walked on. :-D

[Woggle]

My ex got her karma right here.

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t225296/

[mark982]

wife cheated with a family member, left me for family member. he had surgery, died on operating table. karma served.

[reservoirdog1]

XW was a social climber, somewhat known in local politics. After seven years of marriage, she confessed to having cheated multiple times and said she wanted out of the marriage. I wanted to fix things, so she halfheartedly worked on it for two months before declaring she'd had enough. We split.

 

About two months later, somebody (not me) send an email to about 150 people -- folks she knew and members of the local government -- saying that she'd been caught cheating on me with multiple OMs. I haven't a clue who sent it, and she never found out, to the best of my knowledge. Guess she'd acquired a few enemies. Dealt her reputation a pretty heavy blow that took her a few years to recover from.

 

In the early days after the split I admittedly derived some perverse satisfaction from this. However, it's been over six years and I don't care about it anymore.

[learned2 love 2late]

wife cheated with a family member, left me for family member. he had surgery, died on operating table. karma served.

 

Happy days

[McGrupp]

wife cheated with a family member, left me for family member. he had surgery, died on operating table. karma served.

 

can i make this my new signature???

[ThumbingMyWay]

5 years ago my wife had an affair with her boss. 10 years her senior. Good looking guy, confident, cocky...he wooed the office ladys and they all liked him....but he got to my wife....and hence the affair...

 

Dday came...twice...no need to relate the story. But we stayed together and all is well now.

 

 

After dday, he got a transfer to another office and wiht in a year my wife got a new position at another office.

 

Her new boss was 10 years her junior. Very cocky...shovanist, pretty much a young male who thought he was better than everyone else...especially women. My wife endured 2 years with this guy and hated every second she was at work.

 

So I guess the Karma was....her thinking she was getting a new start which she did....but new boss was an a-hole. Was a living hell working there....and altimately she was forced into leaving her job and has been unemployed for over 1 year now.

[Dexter Morgan]

well, my X's other man has physically abused her, punched her in the face.

 

I don't condone violence of any kind, but I guess that would be my example of karma.

[ADF]

There is no such thing as karma. What order exists in the universe is physical, not moral. Talking about karma is fine if you understand it is only a metaphor. People who treat others badly are, on average, more likely to provoke bad treatment in return. But it is no sure thing. Plenty of awful people go through life relatively unscathed, while plenty of innocent people suffer needlessly.

[Jeska16]

Your a LOSER!!!!!