sneak817 Posted March 23, 2010 Share Posted March 23, 2010 Ladies if you're currently in a bad relationship, but you like a guy what would be the point of trying to make the guy you like jealous?? What exactly are you guys looking for when doing this? I could see the benefits if you were available,(making him chase you etc.) but if you're already committed what's the point? On a side note she seemed to get really hurt when I date other women, or talk to them in the clubs or bars. Honestly, I really have feeling for her, but my hands are tide since she's committed to someone else. Currently we're just friends, but the attraction is kinda getting out of control for both of us. I'm not big on being the "other" guy, or being a rebound. But god I would love a shot at her.. Bad timing I guess. How should I treat this guys? She's 25 and I'm 27. Link to post Share on other sites
bubbles5 Posted March 23, 2010 Share Posted March 23, 2010 Well she just wants to make u feel insecure cos she gets insecure when u r hanging out with other female partners.Secondly its like side investment to have bf if she got hurt by u . She is also trying to draw attention n wants to know if u really like her or something, Link to post Share on other sites
phineas Posted March 23, 2010 Share Posted March 23, 2010 Been there. She has BF but wants to hang out with you. She doesn't want you, but she gets pissed if other women want you & you stop paying attention to her & start paying attention to them. You are putting in time to be with her while her boyfreind isn't yet he's getting all the benefits (sex, intimacy, ect) While you get nothing but cock-blocked. I won't put myself in that situation again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sneak817 Posted March 23, 2010 Author Share Posted March 23, 2010 Been there. She has BF but wants to hang out with you. She doesn't want you, but she gets pissed if other women want you & you stop paying attention to her & start paying attention to them. You are putting in time to be with her while her boyfreind isn't yet he's getting all the benefits (sex, intimacy, ect) While you get nothing but cock-blocked. I won't put myself in that situation again. I agree phineas.. I just don't understand why women do this.. I know she has strong feeling for me, but I guess it's not enough for her to take the chance. I think I'm just going to just tell her "I wish she would've gave us a chance", and start seeing someone else that's single. It's sad though we could of had something great. I thought she was just playing games with me at first, but when I met her parents you can tell she's talked to them about me. I got the same vibe from all her friends as well. I wish there was another way, but what can a you do. Link to post Share on other sites
Rearden Metal Posted March 23, 2010 Share Posted March 23, 2010 Attention whore, plain and simple. Low self esteem, wants you to pump her up. You don't want a chance at this one, trust me. Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted March 23, 2010 Share Posted March 23, 2010 Her wanting you to want her has very little to do with her wanting you. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted March 23, 2010 Share Posted March 23, 2010 Amen. Never worship at the altar of the attention whore. The 'chance' you perceive is just an illusion. Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted March 23, 2010 Share Posted March 23, 2010 You're getting set up for a situation of cheating, whether it's branch swinging or cake eating. Steer clear or you're going to get burned...badly. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sneak817 Posted March 23, 2010 Author Share Posted March 23, 2010 Amen. Never worship at the altar of the attention whore. The 'chance' you perceive is just an illusion. Man you guys are right! It's time to take off the nice guy gloves. I'm more pissed that I'm even interested in a attention whore!.. I usually beat these women at there own game, but this one took a while to see. You said it carhill "Illusion".. Thanks guys I needed this reality check! _______________________ Men who don't go after the woman they want will always be a victim of woman that pick them. Link to post Share on other sites
Sw3etdev1L Posted March 26, 2010 Share Posted March 26, 2010 Her insecurity, nothing to do with u Link to post Share on other sites
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