squiggle Posted January 13, 2004 Share Posted January 13, 2004 Hi, I'm new here, just joined this place, it seems nice, I hope the people here are nice too. I'm going through a really rough time, nothing seems to be going right, and I feel really alone - I can't talk to my best (and only) friend because shes got some problem at home that I may have caused (just by being her friend - she's got a possesive husband who seems to be a bit paranoid and distrsting of her and doesn't like her to have male friends), and although I don't think she'd blame me or hate me or anything, I can't help but think and convince myself that I'm at fault. I've got really low confidence and self-esteem, had my heart broken once or twice and I'm beginning to wonder if anyone's ever gonna like me and want me. Link to post Share on other sites
Errol Posted January 13, 2004 Share Posted January 13, 2004 People will like you and want you but you gotta quit trying to convince yourself that you are at fault. You control no ones actions or thoughts but your own. If someone else is upset or angry you have no control over it nor are you responsible for their feelings. I'm sorry that your heart has been broken - but that happens to all of us if we are lucky enough to love. You are not alone. There are new friends and romances in your future but if you go around with your head down you won't see them, so chin-up mate! And Welcome to LoveShack (I can't say it or type it without hearing the refrain 'love shack bay-yaa-bee' in my head!) Link to post Share on other sites
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