Away Posted March 26, 2010 Share Posted March 26, 2010 For some men to express their feelings?? It's SOO frustrating sometimes!! I sent my boyfriend a Christmas E-card, that said something sweet, I love you , miss you whatever. He replied NOTHING to that. I sent him a valentine's day card saying he's hot, sexy and wonderful... he said he liked it. I sent him a birthday card, saying I wish I were there with him, and for him to know that I'm always thinking about him even if we can't be together. He said it was sweet. He sent me a package that arrived today.. my Christmas present supposedly... I was expecting at least a little note.. saying something! anything.. but no.. there was nothing... I've sent him several emails, telling him stupid little things I suddenly remember from our time together. On the last one I specifically said he should reply to my love messages, or I might think he doesn't love me back... He replied with.. "yeah.. that was fun :* " I just don't know... how love can stay alive like this. When he was here, it was OK because we would hold hands, he would hug me or kiss me... But like this... SOOO far away... I have nothing. I feel like I'm feeding my love with memories of what we had when he was here, and by convincing myself that he does love me and that's why he calls me nearly everyday, and sent me package, is coming to visit soon... etc... WHY can't he say he misses me? Or why won't he say it? Doesn't he miss me? Doesn't he wish I were there with him as much as I wish he were still here with me? Ugh... big HUGE UUUGHHHH to this stupid distance... Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted March 26, 2010 Share Posted March 26, 2010 I see a red flag here.... you tell him that if he doesn't respond to your love messages it may make you feel like he doesn't care anymore and he replies with "yeah that was fun". Are you serious?!?!? Either he sucks at expressing how he feels verbally or he's clocking out of the relationship gradually. Hopefully he just has a problem expressing himself verbally, but if it really bothers you, then you need to talk to him about it ASAP. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Away Posted March 27, 2010 Author Share Posted March 27, 2010 Thanks for your reply, Aerogurl... I don't think he's "clocking out the relationship"... he calls me everyday... and he'll be coming to visit me, and we'll be going together to a wedding in my country. So now when he talks, he really seems excited about our trip and everything... I'm going to visit him in June, and he's already hinted more than once that I should come sooner than I'd planned... I just wonder what goes through his head when he sees my messages, and how in the world he would not think to reply... He definitely sucks at expressing his feelings. At least from afar... I don't understand it... It doesn't bother me A LOT... but it is frustrating to not get feedbaack of that sort. I WILL talk to him about it soon ... Thanks again! Link to post Share on other sites
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