pump77 Posted March 26, 2010 Share Posted March 26, 2010 (edited) Okay well i'm 19 and i'm talking to my ex again. she was my first love. We dated for a year and have been apart for a year and a half. we still talk off and on but latley this week we have been talking everyday. The feelings i have for her are still there and have never went away. So i told her how i felt when i saw her last weekend and asked what she thought of us being together again. She said we should take things slow and let us see eachother for what we really are. So i agreed. She seems to have changed in some ways for the better since we have dated. Even though i broke up with her twice. But she has changed so much. Like her self esteem is somewhat higher. She loves herself. I kinda feel like i have to make the effort to try to see her though. Which i find somewhat odd. So my question is, should i let this situation ride and see what happens? or should i just move on? Edited March 26, 2010 by pump77 Link to post Share on other sites
counterman Posted March 26, 2010 Share Posted March 26, 2010 I think you have to ask her how she feels as well, if she really wants to give this another go. Also, you both have to look at the relationship before and look at why you guys broke up and what happened. Each of you have to take responsibility for what happened that caused the break-up. Then, talk about things you can do differently to ensure that you recognise what went wrong and that you both are working towards something better. However, this can all being if and only if you both want to be with each other and work together and if you two have moved on from the hurt. Link to post Share on other sites
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