White Flower Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Really, I would think that the BS should be out of your mind while you are having sex with her H. But, f you would rather have her in your mind, then to each his or her own. Kinda sick IMO, but that's just me. Just as sick as the MM's state of mind when he is having sex with the OW....or his W for that matter.
Author Lizzie60 Posted March 30, 2010 Author Posted March 30, 2010 Really, I would think that the BS should be out of your mind while you are having sex with her H. But, f you would rather have her in your mind, then to each his or her own. Kinda sick IMO, but that's just me. English is not my first language.. but when I said she was far in my mind.. I meant she wasn't in my mind at all.. like she was the last person I would think of.. really... I don't fantasize about women...
JustJoe Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 IDK you, Liz, but you mention multiple MM's. How many? and do any of them know about each other?
Author Lizzie60 Posted March 31, 2010 Author Posted March 31, 2010 IDK you, Liz, but you mention multiple MM's. How many? and do any of them know about each other? Quite a few.. and no.. they don,t know about each other.. although they all know I sleep with other guys (from time to time )...
JustJoe Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 Thank you, Liz for your response. You are a very interesting woman. Another question. Do you accept gifts or money from them? I'm wondering if you are a prostitute. BTW I've been around the world, and prostitution isn't as reviled in other countries, as it is in North America, so I'm not judging you at all.:)
OWoman Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 I have to admit that I was a little bit flattered by his 'trust'... Lizzie, I find it interesting that you saw this in such a positive light. Back in my multiple MM days, I'd have taken it very differently - as an invasion. I had no interest in their "other" lives, and didn't share my life with them in any way (beyond the exchange of body fluids). If one of them had pulled out family pics I'd have pushed the ejector seat button faster than anything.
herenow Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 Lizzie, I find it interesting that you saw this in such a positive light. Back in my multiple MM days, I'd have taken it very differently - as an invasion. I had no interest in their "other" lives, and didn't share my life with them in any way (beyond the exchange of body fluids). If one of them had pulled out family pics I'd have pushed the ejector seat button faster than anything. If I had to guess, this is exactly how I think it should feel, IMO. I would think a family picture would be a buzz kill to an OW. But again, it's just a guess, how would i know?
Author Lizzie60 Posted March 31, 2010 Author Posted March 31, 2010 Lizzie, I find it interesting that you saw this in such a positive light. Back in my multiple MM days, I'd have taken it very differently - as an invasion. I had no interest in their "other" lives, and didn't share my life with them in any way (beyond the exchange of body fluids). If one of them had pulled out family pics I'd have pushed the ejector seat button faster than anything. Nope.. since we know there is no commitment, no attachement beyond sexual 'friendship', I have no problem talking about his family.. and if he wants to share more details/pictures... it's fine with me..
Author Lizzie60 Posted March 31, 2010 Author Posted March 31, 2010 Lizzie, I find it interesting that you saw this in such a positive light. Back in my multiple MM days, I'd have taken it very differently - as an invasion. I had no interest in their "other" lives, and didn't share my life with them in any way (beyond the exchange of body fluids). If one of them had pulled out family pics I'd have pushed the ejector seat button faster than anything. Oh... I just thought ... didn't you marry one of your MM?? :laugh:
JustJoe Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 Thank God My MW kept her "other ", life away from me. And thank God she didn't have kids. If you really want to end affairs, that would be the way to do it. Just show pics of family get-togethers. That's why I'm done with MW's. One woman I can handle, one woman and her whole family, not so much.
Author Lizzie60 Posted March 31, 2010 Author Posted March 31, 2010 Thank God My MW kept her "other ", life away from me. And thank God she didn't have kids. If you really want to end affairs, that would be the way to do it. Just show pics of family get-togethers. That's why I'm done with MW's. One woman I can handle, one woman and her whole family, not so much. Gosh..it's not like I have to babysit the kids... geezzz... I only saw a few pictures.. for the first time in over 6 years...
JustJoe Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 BTW Liz, I really, really, hope I didn't offend you. Nothing could have been further from my mind. I was wondering from reading other posts by you if you were an escort or high-class call girl, because you seem to have your sh*t together.
JustJoe Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 Well, it would be a real passion killer for me. I was hit-on by another Officer's wife once and was an ace away from arranging a little night-time meeting, when her kids showed up. I don't even speak to her, now.
OWoman Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Oh... I just thought ... didn't you marry one of your MM?? :laugh: Indeed... We did get to a point where we realised we were about to cross a boundary - and had to acknowledge at that point that we both did want to cross it, and a major renegotiation followed. But, for the main.... Nope.. since we know there is no commitment, no attachement beyond sexual 'friendship', I have no problem talking about his family.. and if he wants to share more details/pictures... it's fine with me.. ... it's precisely because of the no commitments, no attachment etc agreement that I wouldn't have entertained pics of family, etc. They were lovers, not friends. I would not have wanted them at my funeral, nor at my kids' school plays, nor at my hospital bedside. Their place was strictly in my knickers!
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 1, 2010 Author Posted April 1, 2010 Indeed... We did get to a point where we realised we were about to cross a boundary - and had to acknowledge at that point that we both did want to cross it, and a major renegotiation followed. But, for the main.... ... it's precisely because of the no commitments, no attachment etc agreement that I wouldn't have entertained pics of family, etc. They were lovers, not friends. I would not have wanted them at my funeral, nor at my kids' school plays, nor at my hospital bedside. Their place was strictly in my knickers! Well mine are also friends.. (so to speak)... I also don,t want them at my funeral or my hospital bedside.. .. they belong strictly in my bed... hence my name 'mistress'... between the mister and the mattress..
JustJoe Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 (edited) Why can't more women my age have the same attitude as Owoman and Liz? Most of the women in their late 20's and early 30's want to nest. Maybe I should become a "cougar hunter". LOL Edited April 1, 2010 by JustJoe
2sunny Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Well mine are also friends.. (so to speak)... I also don,t want them at my funeral or my hospital bedside.. .. they belong strictly in my bed... hence my name 'mistress'... between the mister and the mattress.. Lizzie - don't mistake a "friend" as a business transaction. you are in it to make money - they are willing to pay. big difference between a business transaction and friends. they pay for services you provide... that's all it is to you - remember you've said that?
Got it Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 I guess we blurred all kinds of lines. There wasn't that strict of a separation between the two. I actually liked hearing about the kids, etc. Just because one can stick their head in the sand doesn't mean it is a good thing. If love is involved one should be well aware of the reality of the circumstances.
Got it Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Why can't more women my age have the same attitude as Owoman and Liz? Most of the women in their late 20's and early 30's want to nest. Maybe I should become a "cougar hunter". LOL Or hang out with a different group of girls. Shoot I know many who are not remotely interested in nesting.
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 1, 2010 Author Posted April 1, 2010 Why can't more women my age have the same attitude as Owoman and Liz? Most of the women in their late 20's and early 30's want to nest. Maybe I should become a "cougar hunter". LOL We cannot compare women in their 20 or 30s to women in their 40s or 50s... At my age.. I've done/been pretty much everything the younger women do/are... they want children... they are insecure, jealous, they think their husband will be faithful all their life.. At my age... I've had my children.. I've had long relationships... I've been insecure, jealous, etc... With age.. comes wisdom.. and you can't buy that.. ;)
Miad's Princess Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 he's quite happy, except for the sex. His sex life could be amazing for all you know, remember MM in affairs are liars that is why he is with you!
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 4, 2010 Author Posted April 4, 2010 His sex life could be amazing for all you know' date=' remember MM in affairs are liars that is why he is with you![/quote'] Of course... every MM who has an A.. have amazing.. 'all-you-can-eat' sex lives at home.. .. trust me.. I know when a man is sex starved...
OWoman Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 His sex life could be amazing for all you know' date=' remember MM in affairs are liars that is why he is with you![/quote'] That's right - pinocchio was a womaniser Remember parents - beat the stuffing out of your kids every time they tell an untruth - otherwise they'll grow up to be adulterers!
xxoo Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 That's right - pinocchio was a womaniser Remember parents - beat the stuffing out of your kids every time they tell an untruth - otherwise they'll grow up to be adulterers! A: All adulterers are liars. B: All liars are adulterers. Those are different statements. A seems obvious to me. B is not necessarily true.
Miad's Princess Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 Of course... every MM who has an A.. have amazing.. 'all-you-can-eat' sex lives at home Maybe they just have a high sex drive Seriously though everyone knows that the oldest saying in the book by a MM in a A is I don't get it at home
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