shep Posted March 27, 2010 Share Posted March 27, 2010 (edited) hi everyone my name is josh, and it has been years since i've been on this site. anyway i got advice and used it on my gf at the time and i actually ended up getting married to her. Hold on though this is and isn't a happy ending. In early 2006 I joined the US Army and i enlisted for 3 1/2 years. Now i wasn't married at this point yet, but still dating the current gf i had. of course she was heart broken when i left and barely got to talk to her blah blah blah. Well early 2007 i was nearing the end of all my training and asked her to marry me. she said yes and we were married in march of 2007. I went to germany and iraq, and we got divorced while i was in iraq because she cheated on me. well i'm home safe now and i'm actually seeing a mutual friend of ours which is actually her best friend. i know i know crazy. well anyway we've been dating for about 5 months and we have been really close like scary close after only 5 months. well these last 2 weeks have been an emotional rollercoaster. my only real problem that i have with her is she stays in contact with most of her ex bf's. she says it's cuz she had close relationships with them and doesn't want to lose them as friends but she got mad at me for a having a girls number in my phone she didn't like, but i've known the girl since i was like 11????....that's me just being jealous i guess???(just had to throw that in there as well) we were supposed to move in together in a few months and i didn't want to at first but she kinda pushed me into it and i agreed. now she doesn't want to do it anymore, but it is probably a little to fast. well lately we've not been spending as much time together due to our work schedules and the times we do get to talk on the phone she seems like she's distancing herself from me. she went to a party tonight which i was ok with and i knew there was gonna be weed there, and she said she wasn't gonna smoke any. well she got mad at me and smoked some anyway....normally i wouldn't be mad about it, but i mentioned i wanted to smoke a little when i first got back from iraq, and she freaked out and said it was stupid. and if she is going to do something like that when she gets mad at me, then what else would she do if she was mad at me. so i don't really know what's goin on with her and i really love her and don't want to lose her, and she says the same thing to me, but lately i just don't know???? PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME OUT ON THIS ONE I AM SO CONFUSED Edited March 27, 2010 by shep ACCIDENTLY PRESSED POST TO EARLY Link to post Share on other sites
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