briana77 Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 My boyfriend and who I have a child with may have cheated. He's been talking to a girl online since December that he was in the military with over 10 years ago. She lives in California and we recently moved to Texas. She was sending him pics via email of her private parts. I confronted him and he said he didn't ask her to send them and that they were so far apart in distance that nothing would ever happened and that he loved me blah blah blah. I have found unappropriate text messages from her but none from him. Earlier this month a received a message on facebook from a woman telling me that my boyfriend was cheating but she refused to give me a name and that it's going on right in front of me. He denied it and we moved on. Last week I received a message from woman sending me a picture of a woman kissing him on the cheek seductively and he's smiling in the picture. Looks like it was taken in his truck. It looks recent because he just grew his beard out. She said she has more pics, text msgs, hotel receipts. She said he lied to her about me and they were done. When I asked my boyfriend he said the girl is crazy and wants to break us up. He admitted she did fly to Texas one time and that nothing happened and that's what she is angry about. Should I contact this woman or move on? Link to post Share on other sites
Fouts Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 Well Briana, let's take a look at what you have. Nude pictures of other women, other women flying in from out of state to see him, sexual text messages from other women, clandestine FB messages from other women, cell phone pics of other women kissing him in his truck, hotel receipts that other women can provide. Seems to be a recurring them of another woman or women and your bf. Unless you've made one hell of an enemy out there that wants to humiliate you, I'd say your bf is doing a pretty good job of it. I'd change the may have in your first sentence to has. Once you've accepted that, you need to decide what you want to do with this relationship, end it or attempt to repair it. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 "Not sure".... You're kidding....right....? Short of him actually standing on the roof and yelling "yes, I am a cheater and have phukked several other women!" How much louder do you need to hear it? He's doing a damn good job of pulling the wool over your eyes... "Denial ain't a river in Egypt, honey!" Link to post Share on other sites
Author briana77 Posted March 28, 2010 Author Share Posted March 28, 2010 Thanks you all! I can't discuss this with family or friends because they think he's the best thing since sliced bread. I have to get STRONGER! I've been listening to him lie after lie. He never told me she was in town. I wonder how long it's been going on.... Link to post Share on other sites
Fouts Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 Apparently only the past few months, which in the grand scheme of cheating, isn't too long. Be thankful you've found out what you have at this point. Good luck with everything, I know it's going to be very hard, especially with your little one, but it's no reason to be treated like a doormat either. Link to post Share on other sites
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