zebracolors Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 I love the word sweetheart and reserve it for only for my favorite people. I kind of agree with Kamille, and don't really see it as a word that automatically puts you in the friendzone. If a girl is definitely into you, she's going to eventually say alot of other things as well that are way more intimate then friendzone.;) Also we don't call everyone sweetheart, honey or sugar, usually its for someone we care about, and someone we might want to be intimate with. This makes me think of another question. How far in might it be acceptable to start calling the partner pet names like sweetheart? Like if you're infatuated with someone it might seem a little odd to start calling them sugar out of the blue:D But maybe a couple months into the relationship or when both are comfy even would be my thoughts. Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 I kind of agree with Kamille, and don't really see it as a word that automatically puts you in the friendzone. If a girl is definitely into you, she's going to eventually say alot of other things as well that are way more intimate then friendzone.;) Also we don't call everyone sweetheart, honey or sugar, usually its for someone we care about, and someone we might want to be intimate with. Well, about a month ago, I met these two girls at a bar while I was visiting friends in Florida. Hung out with them a few times that weekend. While we were at the beach, one of them said to the other, "isn't [me] the sweetest guy...?" Yea...nothing ever happened with them...except friend zone... But generally, guys probably don't like to be associated with being 'sweet'...but just my opinion... Link to post Share on other sites
craw Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 I agree here. I call my boyfriend a sweetheart all the time, because he is genuinely the nicest and kindest man I have ever met. He goes out of his way to do sweet things for me and I absolutely adore him. He is the only man I've ever considered to be a sweetheart, the other men I dated were ass's and didn't treat me right at all. So in my book it is a very good thing. I imagine the meaning would vary from women to women though. :love:yes - esp he has shown consideration of my well-being/thoughts/feelings. he offers to do things for me, even though i know he doesn't like to do them at all. Link to post Share on other sites
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