Why are We as a Society, Trained to play the field and Keep love options open?

[NotaBadGuy]

Block,

I hear what you are saying, but how much fun/flirting are you talking about here? I don't know where the cost/benefit analysis comes into play with my post. Flirting is naturally going to be a part of the process. I agree with that. That is how it begins.

 

Being a good guy around women will eventually get you what you are looking for. It is not going to be an overnight transformation by any means. If being a player or pushing the envelope is what someone is looking for, then someone will get what they are looking for. That's not the type of woman I have in mind. Being a good guy has nothing to do with winning hearts. It has to do with being sure of who you are and feeling comfortable around whoever. It is a state of mind. Someone will eventually appreciate the qualities. Don't get me wrong, I have been run over etc... but I stand my ground. I will not do anything to compromise my integrity. It takes

 

So what do you get for being the bad guy? You told us what you get for being the good guy.