I am 23 and want a real WOMAN is that so hard?

[Boxinirsh32]

I am interested in a real WOMAN and so far have had no luck with my age group. I guess I am looking for the cliche "cougar," I want a woman who knows what she wants and will go after it! I don't want a one night stand, I want something with some substance. Is it also too much to ask to want an intelligent woman?

[Disillusioned]

Box, believe me... it will all start to make sense once you realize that there are keepers and there are players. Like you, I'm a keeper and I'm tired of players. Unfortunately, there are very few venues where keepers can meet each other with no players in sight.

 

BTW cougars are just female players who are trying to become keepers, but they can't because they believe deep down inside that commitment is wrong.

[TaraMaiden]

The trouble is, a cougar will simply look upon you as a morsel to chew up and spit out....

 

Even cougars can be choosy.....

if you want a cougar, make yourself worth their while.

 

 

 

 

(*growl*.....)

[confused and broken]

I suspect you don't really know what you want

If you got your cougar you would probably realize very quickly that that is not what you want at all

[Boxinirsh32]

You are probably right, from the sounds of it that is not what I want. I want a mature woman to date and have a relationship with, I don't want to be a player or be played. I've messes around and had dates but never seem to be as interested in the other person as they are in me. Or they get crazy! haha Thx for the input and I'll keep looking until I find something that I like and fits right.

[Engadget]

I've been looking for an intelligent, mature girl in her early to mid 20's as well. It's hard to find, that's for sure.