Is he being cold after going away for more than 3 months?

[maria_patheticsoul]

Ok so here i am again after several months....i am still with the very same complicated guy...well what can i say i guess i love him...experienced almost all kind of pains with him...experienced separation and second chance and now in an LDR situation.

This guy i met online...after 2 moths met him in HK in person then he went back with me here in my country...from there on he went back 2 more times...finally the last time he was here was in June last year stayed for 6months then in December he went back home. During his stay here we lived together but had a break of two months but during this break we still see each other and talk. The meaning of break here is not living together. We finally decided to live together again last October...then came December he went back home...during the first 2 1/2 months of him being far away from me i can say it was pretty good because we email a lot though we don't chat and he don't call often it was fine with me. At first i felt it was sweet him sending me email with sweet thoughts and words but after a while it pisses me off when he became so needy of my attention...like he gets pissed of when i don't reply his email quickly...last March 9 he sent me an email compalining about my two sentences email...i replied him simply asking him what was wrong this time....that was the last email i got from him..he stopped sending me emails for 3 weeks....i thought it will be nice if i just keep on sending him email even if he don't reply...but i got tired after one week so i stopped...then again i sent him an email last march 24 just saying that i miss him..he replied finally on the 26th with a short email saying that he loves me and that he misses me....exchange of email continued again until 31st....during that period i asked him to enlighten me about the status of our relationship...he said there is no problem with our relationship except his home coming will be much delayed but his reasons were valid so that is not a problem for me...what i am bothered about are his emails...after the cut of communication for three weeks...i felt he went cold on me...he is not really saying a lot in his email and at times a day will pass without him sending any single email. This situation is pissing me off big time...he says nothing is wrong but i feel there is something wrong...can not talk to him about this for now since i know he is going through a tough situation.

 

Hmmm i really need some input about this...i really don't know what to do or how to sort this thing out...sometimes i feel i should quit and give up....but i promised him i am not going to give up on us. Can someone tell me if this is a sign of a break-up?