advicegirl Posted January 15, 2004 Share Posted January 15, 2004 As you probably know I talked to you all about the guy I like. I really, really like him. I didn't tell anybody this before. He is talking to me and I noticed that he is watching me alot. Even the other day one of my friends told me that he was stareing at me. I also noticed when he cracks up a joke he looks at me and smiles to see if i'm laughing. I am different around him because if he asks if he can use something of mine I totally give it to him. My friend tells me i'm obvious that i like him. At school when we play games and that he is passing the ball and that more to me. Please I need advice!!! There is also this other girl that has asked him out more then 10 times, he keeps refusing though. I don't know, I want to ask him, but I am a little worried what he might say and most of all what everyone else thinks. The girl that likes him, well we don't talk very much and she seems like she trys to get all these guys and she already has a boyfriend. She also isn't very happy when he refused. The thing is I'm a little worried what she might say to. Also I don't want my other friends when they figure out that I like him to go around and bug him. He might feel pressured like what the other girl does to him. She gets her friends to ask him out for her too. Thanks for listening!!! Advicegirl Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted January 15, 2004 Share Posted January 15, 2004 Next time you are talking with him just ask him "Are you ever going to ask me out?" and you will have your answer. Link to post Share on other sites
Girlie Posted January 15, 2004 Share Posted January 15, 2004 Hon - first off, I know this might be hard...but quit caring about what other people think. A lot of people will question what you want out of love and life, but it's none of their business. Nobody is going to hand you what you want....sometimes you just gotta go try n get it. Secondly, the worst that's going to happen if you ask him out is that he will say no. Will that hurt? Sure, rejection always does. But you'll move on from it and you'll have the satisfaction of knowing that you're not afraid to go after what you want. I asked my current boyfriend out and am so glad that I took the intiative instead of waiting and wondering. About this other girl, I wouldn't even think twice about it. She asked him, he said no. If she wants to continue to make a fool out of herself by asking him out a trillion more times and getting the same answer, there's not much anyone can do about that. Anyway, I hope that helps. I suggest you go for it. Like I said, even if it turns out he doesn't feel the same way, at least you'll know and then you can move on from there. Link to post Share on other sites
Author advicegirl Posted January 15, 2004 Author Share Posted January 15, 2004 THANKYOU SO MUCH FOR THE ADVICE!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author advicegirl Posted January 15, 2004 Author Share Posted January 15, 2004 I will fill you all in on what happens when I go back to school. Thanks again for the advice. I also forgot to say when he is around people, well when the girl is driving him crazy I feel alittle jealous. Does that mean anything? She also hangs near him alot. Its like she thinks that if he won't go out with her then she has to drive him crazy. advicegirl Link to post Share on other sites
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