donnist Posted January 15, 2004 Share Posted January 15, 2004 I got a text message on my cell phone of a conversation my girlfriend and a guy who she says is her friend. The conversation was: My girlfriend: Happy New Year! Enjoy 2004 Be safe Luv Sandy. The guy: You're going to live long I was wondering if you were going to email me. Where are you? My girlfriend: You know you are my heart of course I'm reaching out to you.... Im in Tampa. The guy: Enjoy.. When you get back I will give you your 1st. break off for 2004. I asked her who is this guy and where do they stand... and she says they are friends. That is just the way she texted it as... But of course the last text from him doesn't imply that. So I asked her does he know that you are seeing me? and she says no... does not. I then told her that I don't find that her message appropriate to send. I said it sounds like you and this guy has or had something going on. She says, since we have been together she and this guy has not had anything going on. So I ask her have you guys ever had something going on? and she says thats none of my business... I feel like she is hiding something from me by not telling me if anything went on between them. Becasue first off he is only her friend but are these the kind of messages you send to a friend??? Somebody help me... what could I ask her??? I am losing my trust for her... or it may already be lost. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted January 15, 2004 Share Posted January 15, 2004 She says, since we have been together she and this guy has not had anything going on. So I ask her have you guys ever had something going on? and she says thats none of my business... Sounds like one true statement and one "no comment". Yes, they had something going on in the past, and he is trying to restart with no discouragement from her. Don't chew her out, just let her know your concern. Link to post Share on other sites
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