What is this suppose to mean? Hi everyone!

[definedhearts]

Hi everyone!

Well my friend's brother Logan (he's 18, I'm 18) is so hard to read. He's never really nice to anyone, but everyone says he shows his love through some of his sassiness (rudeness) or "insults". I've liked him for a little while, but since I dont know if he likes me I've realized that I just want to be friends with him, until he matures more.

But anyways...to the main question...

I'm SO confused, because I thought for sure he didn't see me in "that" way. But I left my phone at his house when his sister and I went to the store. The next day his mom told me that he was looking through my phone the night before, and he thought that I had been talking to our friend (his sister's kind-of crush) Michael, but it was really just my brother who's name is also Michael. His mom said that he was really worried, then they realized it was just my brother because the numbers were different. But that he kept saying "I bet she talks to a lot of guys" and that he seemed concerned. I'm not really sure what to get from that.

What are you opinions?

[TaraMaiden]

....I dont know if he likes me I've realized that I just want to be friends with him, until he matures more.

Right.... so you're going to wait until....when?

people don't necessarily develop to conform to what we expect of them./ Either decide you'd like to have something going, or don't. But don't 'wait' for anything....

 

I'm SO confused, because I thought for sure he didn't see me in "that" way. But I left my phone at his house when his sister and I went to the store. The next day his mom told me that he was looking through my phone the night before, and he thought that I had been talking to our friend (his sister's kind-of crush) Michael, but it was really just my brother who's name is also Michael. His mom said that he was really worried, then they realized it was just my brother because the numbers were different. But that he kept saying "I bet she talks to a lot of guys" and that he seemed concerned. I'm not really sure what to get from that.

What are you opinions?

My opinion is that he had no right looking through your 'phone and making crass judgements about you without talking to you first.

What a jerk.

I don't think he'll ever be mature enough to get out of school, so don't waste time on an idiot who doesn't respect your privacy, and makes thoughtless comments like that one.

If someone picked up my phone and went through it, I'd knock him so far into next week he wouldn't know what day it was!

[mixwell]

As just a friend I think it was stupid of him.. I would never go through someones phone but it does bring up a unique situation that as only a friend going through your phone and this other "guy" who he didn't know of making him concerned I think he is more than interested in you.. I have female friends and if they left their phone at my house personally I wouldn't give a **** and look through it or care who they talked to but for this guy to be a so called friend only and go through your phone and get concerned that you were talking to others makes me believe he is more interested than just friends..

 

I know it may come off as stupid under the situations but I really feel like this guy could possible be more interested than a just friends relationship.. I say if you're interested it maybe something you might want to consider but the whole snooping in the phone might yield in insecure issues.. As a guy I would be pissed off and defensive if my girlfriend went through my phone and found a girl (even if only my sister) and made a stink about it.. That could come off as super jealous and insecure which are one of my 2 biggest turn offs no matter how attractive the woman may be.. Is he interest in you ? I say ya but could his jealousy (which i go only off the fact that he went through your phone) be an issue ?? ya..