Naive Maybe Posted January 15, 2004 Share Posted January 15, 2004 weird question but here it goes im friends with an ex of mine we chat on the phone everynow and then we were talking oh abouta week ago and i said hubby and i are thinking of having another baby thinking ok someone would say congrats im happy for u instead he replied with a kinda sarcastic but down voice how about i come to where u live and get you preg we have a baby i asked what was meant by that remark he said id be doing your hubby a favor.what the ?no hes never done this before but then again i wasnt married i am now have been for 6.5 yrs its like this past week weve talked he seems to belittle my husband like hes better than my hubby and i dont get it i thought we were friends i dont belittle his wife i say nothing remotely rude about the woman but lately he seems to have a prob with my hubby.WHY? yeah hubby knows im friends with him and talks to him i dont want to hurt his feelings for what my ex said about him. And the ex kept asking me if im still in love with him i told him no im not he said well i dont want u too get hurt .why would he even attempt to ask something like that.last week is when the ex started acting sarcastic about my husband.i truelly thought we could be just friends maybe im too naive.what does anyone else think? Link to post Share on other sites
Errol Posted January 15, 2004 Share Posted January 15, 2004 Maybe his is having some problems in his own marriage and is projecting the anger on to yours. If you are really good friends then you can ask him if something is wrong and offer to help. Also refrain from saying anything about your husband -- good or bad. My first thought when I read your post was that there is something amiss in his own marriage and he's feeling depressed. Link to post Share on other sites
Helpme2004 Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 could the ex be jealous of the hubby?stranger things have happened Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 I think you should spend more time talking to your current hubby instead of your ex. I think it's disrespectful to discuss a relationship you are having with one person....to someone you had a relationship with in the past. Especially something as personal as having a baby. I didn't mean that harshly.....it's just my personal opinion. If you think about it....and it was the other way around....how would YOU feel? I would really be ticked off. Link to post Share on other sites
Helpme2004 Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 i tend to disagree with arabess i find it nothing wrong with telling someone your having a baby its a happy time anyway thats what i think.i would think you would want to shout it from the roof tops were having a baby proud parents to be normally are very excited. Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 I think you should spend more time talking to your current hubby instead of your ex. I think it's disrespectful to discuss a relationship you are having with one person....to someone you had a relationship with in the past. Especially something as personal as having a baby. I didn't mean that harshly.....it's just my personal opinion. If you think about it....and it was the other way around....how would YOU feel? I would really be ticked off. I think arabess nailed it right on the head.... your ex is your ex for a reason. what would happen if hubby started talking to his ex..... especially about yours 2 relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
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