adidas6380 Posted January 16, 2004 Share Posted January 16, 2004 Ok. i have had a few threads onhere befoer about my old girlfriend. we had some problems and stuff liek that and we broke up for a little while got back together then now we broke up again but we agreed that it was for good this time. she says that she still has feeling for me but it just doesnt work out. the only reason it didnt workout was because of her friends making her feel guilty all the time about spending more time with me then them. and they never tried to call her up to hang out with them. they expected her to go to them everytime. so they made her feel guilty enough so she broke up with me. i said that i was kinda relieved about it and that i was ok. i have acted like it didnt bother me at all and this was killing her to see me ok with it. but then i started to hang out with this other girl that she knows. we are jsut haning out with nothing happening. like the firt time that my ex and i broke up i started to hang out with this girl and i guess we sterted to like each other and i told me exy that and then she came back to me. i found out that i really hurt this other girl and that she cried. i felt pretty bad about it. but we started to hang out again and my ex got pissed. and my ex and i are still good friends because of our families. and i really dont want to lose her as a friend. my ex said that if me and that other girl started to date then she wouldnt be able to talk to me again. and i got pissed there and just left. but i started to think about things and i noticed that i didnt feel the same way i did around this other girl like i did the first time. so i realized that i didnt liek her. and i told her that i did want a relationship now and stuff liek that. so she got mad and told me she knew i was going to do that. but now everything is ok. we are all friends now. but, they still get mad at each other because of me. i am a big time flirter so i flirt a lot. and i flirt with this girl sometimes and i flirt with my ex too. thats the way i am. but when i flirt with one of them the other gets mad. and this has been going on for awhile now. but another thing is last night and during some of my classes today i cuaght myself doing something that i dont want to do. i realized taht no matter what i do i cant get my ex out of my head. she is the only thing i think about. during my exams i dont even know how i answer the ?'s because she is the only thing i think about then. i know if i say anything to either of them about this then it would jsut mess everything up again. becausei know the other girl would feel like i used ehr and then i dont even know if my ex would even want me back. she said that she still has feelings for me but it jsut doesnt workout.. i odnt know why this is just now hitting me now. i have been totally fine with it till i started to realize that she is the only thing that i think of. im so confused about everything now. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted January 21, 2004 Share Posted January 21, 2004 Um, can you translate that into some coherent statements or questions? And refer to each girl by a name, any name? Link to post Share on other sites
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