interested and scared?

[ImARabbit]

so basically she's my classmate. a very shy and quiet girl. never had a bf. we just glance at each other here and there. you know the deal, she looks, i look, she looks away kind of stuff. when i talk to her, she blushes. anyway, i asked her out. her answer shocked me big time. i was 100% sure she likes me. she said... " no...you're not serious, i can see it in your eyes" and i was like why? she said there's no reason to be said it's just that she's not interested. that same day i asked her out, i saw her walking at the hallway and we see each other. she looked down and i just smiled at her then she smiled back...

 

so basically, the next few weeks were awkward. i wasn't looking at her but this time she tries to talk to me but not really a big convo. she basically tries to make herself noticable. my classmates even tell me that she really stares at me so looong in class. it's like she's dowsing on me.

 

so right now, my plan is to ask her out again.

 

do you guys think she's just scared or really not interested?

[PhillySpecial]

Who knows. Ask her out again, it can't hurt.

[amagordos]

Perhaps, she is scared. I'm a really shy person, so i would understand how she would feel if you asked her out. Maybe she is not ready to date you yet, but ask her instead if she wants to hang out with you, like during school and stuff. That works better, she can't say no to that. From what you say it sounds like she likes you, but is just terrified.

[Rorschach]

I'd agree with above poster, definitely likes you but is scared and shy and needs to be handled a little more gently. Asking her out to the park or something just as friends at first would be a good move.