nicolas Posted January 16, 2004 Share Posted January 16, 2004 Hi, I'm in a dillema here, see i've been attraction and nothing much more. I thought that if i went out w/her that i would begin to likeher more... but that hadating this girl for while now.. about 6-7 months, at first i went out with her because she asked me... i had a little bit of hasnt really happend. I don't really feel anything for her , but i don't really want to break up w/her... and i know that she definately doesnt' want to break up w/me. I know I won't find another girlfriend if we break up as i am very shy. I don't really know why im still in the relation ship. For all the girls out there, i don't treat her bad, when we hang out i make sure that she's having fun... , i buy her perfumes and stuff for her b-day and christmas and give her randome gifts, but i still dont' feel anything really and i don't see this going anywhere, she says she wants to get married one day and it makes it all that much harder jus to tell her that i don't feel much... I'm not gay... i just can't explain why i dont' feel anything for her... any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
steffany Posted January 16, 2004 Share Posted January 16, 2004 Don't expect to like everyone you go out with. Feeling change. It just happens. Now if you never had feelings for her and she for you and you were just dating her because you thought you should have feelings for her. Shame on you! You cannot toy with people. Just because you aren't attracted to her does not mean you are gay. Suck it up to a bad move you made by not telling her you only have friendship feelings for her! Link to post Share on other sites
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