Tamia78 Posted April 10, 2010 Share Posted April 10, 2010 Well, it's been about 44 days NC for me, and I'm doing alot better these days. I'm dating again, meeting some nice guys, and guys who still don't know what they want. The thing I want most is for someone to appreciate me, and love me and help me to be better, as I'm trying to do for myself for now. Believe it or not, I'm meeting guys who seem to want that with me..............but now I want to run from them. Running away from the thing I want most. Now I KNOW I'm crazy. I'm a little discouraged because I thought I was doing better. Now here's some new issues I need to deal with in order to have a better relationship. How do you guys deal with that? --T Link to post Share on other sites
Odyssey Posted April 10, 2010 Share Posted April 10, 2010 i did the same thing as you, by hitting the dating scene after several months of nc from my breakup. Some of the girls were truly awesome. But i didn't feel the same - i found i didn't open up as much, i just wasn't ready. It wasn't them, it was me! my issues. Plus i felt it wasn't fair on them, as if i was leading them on...so i am taking a break from dating. But i guess testing the water is a good thing. Go slow. Better than diving in. Link to post Share on other sites
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