Possible influence of female singers on penis size preferences

[marsle85]

Cause it don't mean a thang if it ain't got that swing.

 

hahahahah! I love that.

[Engadget]

Well, that's my preference so I usually ask them their size before anything because long term I wouldn't be satisfied. It's just being realistic to my physical needs. It wouldn't be fair to him or me in the long run.

 

I lol'd for real

[D. It Is Written]

Yeah I'm one of the few white guys who LOVES a big ass. My ex was white and had a "black girl's" ass. I've always liked ass more than breasts.

 

White guys are more into breasts because most white women have them, and no ass. There's a girl I know with big C's or D's, and a totally flat ass. That seems to be the norm.

 

On the subject of penis size, most men think theirs is smaller than it actually is due to foreshortening. When you look down at it, it appears shorter than someone looking from the outside. I'm above average and curved, so it seems way shorter than it actually is where girls tell me quite the opposite.

 

I'm always happy to meet caucasian men that like big butts. I wish there were more. :/ I'm so sick of hearing about how great big boobs are. I'm a B-cup, but I have a lot of "junk in the trunk" compared to most caucasian women. I love it.

 

Do you think penis size could also attribute to 'most' white guys tending to be 'more into' average size ass/pelvic regions. A typical thick big black booty and pelvic area looks quite dominating over a 5 ish size penis. Notice that most white guys prefer average size or smallish parts except for when it comes to the breasts and then suddenly they are into extra size with only that one part.

 

Does this mean the reason I prefer big penises is because it's necessary in order to get past my ass? Haha.

 

Maybe girls who need huge penises have loose vaginas?

 

Um, no.

 

I think female singers like Rihanna have made women more open about stating a size preference. Maybe that whole "it's not the size of the wave, it's the motion of the ocean" stuff that was made up to soothe male egos made women a little hesitant to come out and say, "Hey! I like big penises!" I have no problem saying bigger is better, especially when I have to hear men go on about big breasts all the time.

[Pfiend101]

Again if any guys are worried about this you can make a woman come with your fingers. So if you are on the smaller side its not a big deal. Lol

[SomewhatExperienced]

I read an interesting article/rant about penis size from a sociologist speaking about how we're condition by culture to think a bigger penis is better. It used to be frowned upon and laughed at to have a big dick hundreds of years ago.

 

I good point he made was this:

 

Guys. Does a tight vagina feel better? Yes it does. Do you prefer a tight vagina over a regular or loose one? I think I can safely say most men would prefer a tight vagina. BUT. does it matter THAT much to you? Not really.

 

It's because there's very little importance put on vagina tightness in our culture. These women are constantly told (by these singers included) that bigger is better, and they get convinced of that this is what they need. Its caused a huge amount of self-esteem issues for men to the point of all these penis enlargement sites and such. If the tables were turned and the same importance was put on having a tight vagina you'd likely see lots of sites on making your vagina tighter and women fretting over it when it really doesn't matter than much to men, except to the few like gorgeous girl who have bought into it all.

 

Interesting to think about, eh?

[Gypsy_Soul]

I read an interesting article/rant about penis size from a sociologist speaking about how we're condition by culture to think a bigger penis is better. It used to be frowned upon and laughed at to have a big dick hundreds of years ago.

 

I good point he made was this:

 

Guys. Does a tight vagina feel better? Yes it does. Do you prefer a tight vagina over a regular or loose one? I think I can safely say most men would prefer a tight vagina. BUT. does it matter THAT much to you? Not really.

 

It's because there's very little importance put on vagina tightness in our culture. These women are constantly told (by these singers included) that bigger is better, and they get convinced of that this is what they need. Its caused a huge amount of self-esteem issues for men to the point of all these penis enlargement sites and such. If the tables were turned and the same importance was put on having a tight vagina you'd likely see lots of sites on making your vagina tighter and women fretting over it when it really doesn't matter than much to men, except to the few like gorgeous girl who have bought into it all.

 

Interesting to think about, eh?

 

What's amusingly interesting is that it seems you are 'buying' into what one sociologist ranted about somewhere. I don't watch t.v. and I certainly do NOT listen to the current music that is out today.

 

If you read what I typed, I did mention how it is my personal preference because larger feels better to me than a small little tiny penis. I don't see your argument as to how I'm buying into what singers sing about.

 

I will also add that men go on about other things that they prefer for example: bigger butts, bigger breasts, smaller waists etc. It's all about personal preferences IMO If a man doesn't like me for what I have physically so what, I'm not changing myself. If you are a weak minded man or woman you will unfortunately go and have that cosmetic breast inhancement, butt implants, and penis enlargment. That's NOT my thing. I like the real deal.

Edited April 12, 2010 by GorgeousGirl

[aerogurl87]

Well I think Missy Elliot's song One Minute Man sums it up pretty well for most women regardless of size preference. "I don't want a one minute man", and even I don't think that's influenced women's thoughts on men's penis sizes or performance in the bedroom. I think it's just a reflection of what women have thought but kept suppressed due to society. Although I think Trina's verse says it best where she says "if you can't beat it up, eat it up". As Pfiend101 said, you can always just make a woman orgasm with your fingers if you think you're not physically endowed enough, or you can use your tounge.

[Engadget]

Well I think Missy Elliot's song One Minute Man sums it up pretty well for most women regardless of size preference. "I don't want a one minute man", and even I don't think that's influenced women's thoughts on men's penis sizes or performance in the bedroom. I think it's just a reflection of what women have thought but kept suppressed due to society. Although I think Trina's verse says it best where she says "if you can't beat it up, eat it up". As Pfiend101 said, you can always just make a woman orgasm with your fingers if you think you're not physically endowed enough, or you can use your tounge.

 

There aren't any songs that come to mind about women being bad in bed. Of course there's songs about big asses, but none that say "You lie there like a dead fish, MAKE SOME NOISE!".

 

I could make money off that...

[Mr Fractal]

There aren't any songs that come to mind about women being bad in bed. Of course there's songs about big asses, but none that say "You lie there like a dead fish, MAKE SOME NOISE!".

 

I could make money off that...

 

There's a guy on youtube that has a big penis and has secretly sound recorded very many encounters and says there is more to come and I've yet to hear one intercourse session of his in which the women weren't making noise. Seems that his big penis does at least take care of that problem. I'm above average in length and average in thickness and all the women I've had could take me easily and they were white not even black as I've only been with white women. Only a few have made any noise during the intercourse, technique or no technique.

[Mr Fractal]

You forgot a classic: 20 Fingers, "Short Dick Man", as in "don't want, don't want, don't want, no short dick man."

 

And no, singers don't influence my tastes in men's body parts. The man himself is what makes his dick appealing or not.

 

I recall being in a crowded nightclub and that song came on loud (all the music was loud) and many of the chicks in the place were holding their arms in the air with their fingers close together. I had almost forgotten about that one.

[Mr Fractal]

What's amusingly interesting is that it seems you are 'buying' into what one sociologist ranted about somewhere. I don't watch t.v. and I certainly do NOT listen to the current music that is out today.

 

If you read what I typed, I did mention how it is my personal preference because larger feels better to me than a small little tiny penis. I don't see your argument as to how I'm buying into what singers sing about.

 

I will also add that men go on about other things that they prefer for example: bigger butts, bigger breasts, smaller waists etc. It's all about personal preferences IMO If a man doesn't like me for what I have physically so what, I'm not changing myself. If you are a weak minded man or woman you will unfortunately go and have that cosmetic breast inhancement, butt implants, and penis enlargment. That's NOT my thing. I like the real deal.

 

If a guy had had his penis enlarged would that make a difference to you psychologically? In other words, does he need to natually have a big penis for you to feel the same about him, or the sex, mentally?

[PJKino]

There's a guy on youtube that has a big penis and has secretly sound recorded very many encounters and says there is more to come and I've yet to hear one intercourse session of his in which the women weren't making noise. Seems that his big penis does at least take care of that problem. I'm above average in length and average in thickness and all the women I've had could take me easily and they were white not even black as I've only been with white women. Only a few have made any noise during the intercourse, technique or no technique.

 

I also know girls who are scared of a really big one..Just like Men not all women have the same preferences

 

do u have a link to this guy?

[marsle85]

Firstly, I'm not afraid of anything.

 

And secondly, the way I see it- you can't change penis size. Let it go. Don't look for validation here, find it in yourself. You can be a GREAT lover, regardless of penis size.

 

Really people.

 

Not to mention- I would say a HUGE motivator for a female's preference is the man's own emphasis on dick size. It's a social thing. If we stop praising big cocks and looking down on small ones (ex: posting these threads) we could ...try moving on from this.

 

Same with breast size. Enough is enough.

[D-Lish]

I also know girls who are scared of a really big one..Just like Men not all women have the same preferences

 

do u have a link to this guy?

 

I'm not scared of them- but they hurt like crazy.

 

When I truly care for someone, their dick size doesn't matter.

[troggleputty]

Well at least now I know why Rhianna and Lady Gaga both laughed at my dick when they were over my house for that threesome a couple of nights ago.

[gypsy_nicky]

Yeah I'm one of the few white guys who LOVES a big ass. My ex was white and had a "black girl's" ass. I've always liked ass more than breasts.

 

White guys are more into breasts because most white women have them, and no ass. There's a girl I know with big C's or D's, and a totally flat ass. That seems to be the norm.

 

I'm not agreeing with this.

 

Most white girls Ive met or see in the street have nice bubble butts and ample hips. They usually try to diet down to a smaller dress size to de-emphasize this.

 

The particular race I notice with flat asses are East Asians (Chinese, Japanese, Korean)

[cooldudeinberlin]

Taking mass produced, pop music and its silly, no meaning lyrics too seriously is mistake #1... its not like any of the artist mentioned, despite their popular success, are considered creative, artistic entities... no reason to get freaked about rehashed music, themes and lyrics aimed at creating a provocative reaction ... quite seriously, I would consider some of these lyrical claims to come from someone extremely sexually inexperienced... then again, they dont take it seriously, why should you?

 

I mean, come on... its not like any of the chick "divas" mentioned would really have much of a choice (for the exception of them being famous)... none of them I find even remotely extraordinary in anyway to even get my attention... so they may want the big thick one, but the big thick ones perhaps dont want them ;-)...

 

come on... lady ga ga? she is about as desirable as genital fungus

Edited April 12, 2010 by cooldudeinberlin

[Nikki Sahagin]

Well, i'm sorry but no-one feels a small penis, as in, a REALLY small penis. A medium-large penis is fine. I don't think music is affecting peoples preferences, maybe people 'pretend' it does. I think every girl would prefer a big penis to a small one, thats pretty normal.

[torranceshipman]

It doesn't have any impact on us, period. We all feel this way already (lol!) so the singers are simply reflecting society in their lyrics - they are simply reflecting the way we all already feel.

 

Anyone that says they prefer small is flat out lying to save a guys' feelings. If we love a guy we will be turned on by him even if he is small, but thats love for you!-we'd all generically prefer a guy to be larger. I've known a friend to break it off with a lovely guy after the 1st time she saw his you know what as it was too small and she couldn't put up with that as her future!!

 

No female singer is going to affect our judgement about this - it is pretty much just nature if you ask me...

[torranceshipman]

There's a guy on youtube that has a big penis and has secretly sound recorded very many encounters and says there is more to come and I've yet to hear one intercourse session of his in which the women weren't making noise. Seems that his big penis does at least take care of that problem. I'm above average in length and average in thickness and all the women I've had could take me easily and they were white not even black as I've only been with white women. Only a few have made any noise during the intercourse, technique or no technique.

 

Woah that guy is a major douche...isn't that illegal to be recording his sexual partners in secret then broadcasting it on the Internet???

[PJKino]

If a large penis is this important why dont all women just date black guys?

[Mutant Debutante]

 

come on... lady ga ga? she is about as desirable as genital fungus

 

 

Aw...I'm not much into the whole pop music scene but she's got real classical chops, and I love her clothes...except for the Kermit dress. I wish I could get away with wearing space age weirdities all day.

 

Too small is a problem. Too big is a problem. Most girls are now and have always been like Goldilocks. Maybe some are just getting bigger mouths about it.

[espec10001]

Anyone who bases their self worth on what popular culture dictates deserves to be shamed!

[make me believe]

I think that when women say size doesn't matter, they've never actually been with a guy who had a really small dick. He doesn't have to be HUGE, but at least average. I've been with two guys who had tiny dicks, and I am sorry, but it mattered! There is nothing sexy about reaching down into a guy's pants and grabbing something the size of your finger.

 

I really don't think that female pop singers have anything to do with this preference, though. lol.

[Engadget]

I think that when women say size doesn't matter, they've never actually been with a guy who had a really small dick. He doesn't have to be HUGE, but at least average. I've been with two guys who had tiny dicks, and I am sorry, but it mattered! There is nothing sexy about reaching down into a guy's pants and grabbing something the size of your finger.

 

I really don't think that female pop singers have anything to do with this preference, though. lol.

 

Yeah of course. The equivalent I guess is...the dreaded roast beef curtains. Nothing makes oral sex more unpleasant. Or a horrible smell actually.