I caught my boyfriend looking at porn on his computer. No explanation will suffice.

[lostforwords]

lostforwords, what do you mean by 'water off a duck's back'?

I think the words 'slut' and 'bitch' are commonly used as slander, to disrespect women. Do you think that merely because women can (and do) put up with them, they are legitimate?

 

"what the hell is this a sisters against pornography convention???": no, but it is a forum in which we discuss issues relating to porn. i think that is what everyone is doing.

 

 

true your right this is a forum... however it has become redundant.... as far as the words slut and ho well i guess you can start a debate about rap music... and my god maybe the terms we call men too should be debated.... this is like a revolving door... stop feeling sorry foryourselves because some men or man did ya guys wrong somehow so now your pushing your causes..... ofcourse people get hurt and offended by names like that.... your not a child your an adult... and one could only hope if anyone ever called you that yo would have the common sense for defending yourself like most women would do and not sit and boohoo over it. Point blank if you dont like porn dont look at it dont watch it but dont make other womens minds up for us by wanting to get rid of something just because you dont like it. that to me is worse than porn itself. embrace the fact that you cant change people minds and rather have some understanding tothat each operson can and will be entitled to thier own opinion...... just like you are... that weve read over and over and over again.

[kalira]

now who is using latin? haha

 

at least i try to respond to your points dyermaker. you rarely do the same for me, and have at least twice reduced yourself to personal attacks which dont support your position one iota.

[dyermaker]

Originally posted by kalira

at least i try to respond to your points dyermaker.

Try a bit harder, and have a bunny.

[lostforwords]

Lost, I don't think they let me bring potatoes over the border

 

lmao.... stupid vegetation rules.... hey dyer maybe we can debate about how the borders wont let you transport vegetation across the line... like potatoes... and we'll push our points across with idol bantering untill someone finally bows to the almighty anti vegetation queens/kings and declares potatoes filthy and vial as well as the farmers who demoralize them and the factory workers who produce and manipulate them into spawns of the evilness in which we call chips, potatoe chips are an 80 billion dollar industry... as well they use demeaning titles as Lays, as well as use names as Mrs. Vickers.... omg i think were onto something

[kalira]

thanks, morrigan for discussing the issue of whether porn is capable of causing harm, and if so, whether people should be concerned about it. thats the kind of discussion on the merits that is worth reading.

[dyermaker]

Originally posted by kalira

thanks, morrigan for discussing the issue of whether porn is capable of causing harm, and if so, whether people should be concerned about it. thats the kind of discussion on the merits that is worth reading.

Is only discourse that you agree with worth reading?

[calithin83]

Lies are the foundation of the temptations we face in sex addiction. The devil is a master liar. Jesus explained, "He [satan] was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies" ( John 8:44 NIV).

[kalira]

i didnt say that i agreed with her, dyermaker.

[calithin83]

Porn damages the viewer. Proverbs 6:27 says: "Can a man scoop fire into his lap without

 

his clothes being burned?" The implied answer is "No." Lusting after people with our eyes

 

and thoughts is equivalent to committing the sin with them (Matthew 5:28). Porn trains us

 

to practice lust and live in a fantasy world of evil thoughts. As a result, we burn with

 

insatiable lust that drives us to seek gratification. The memories resulting from our porn

 

activities can last a lifetime and damage our ability to enjoy sex in our marriage.

 

Pornography also can lead us down the destructive path of perversion. Pedophilia,

 

homosexuality, rape and abuse are just a few of the many possible activities that porn

 

promotes.

[calithin83]

Lust is sin (Matthew 5:28) and sin is death (Romans 6:23). Jesus said, "But I say to you

 

that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in

 

his heart" (Matthew 5:28 NKJV). When we entertain fantasies through pornography,

 

masturbation, voyeurism, adultery, fornication, phone sex, etc., we sin with our minds.

 

According to Jesus, that's the same as committing the act.

[dyermaker]

Originally posted by calithin83

Pedophilia, homosexuality, rape and abuse are just a few of the many possible activities that porn promotes.

 

Uhh, not the porn that I watch.

 

Religious banter has no place in a discussion such as this, because it's only relevant to your pious, holier-than-thou rhetoric. I suppose I'm going to Hell?

[calithin83]

if i want to talk religious i can, obviously u dont want God being mentioned .

[calithin83]

Moderator's note: the content of this post was copied wholesale from another website and was thus deleted.

[DerangedAngel]

Would you mind posting the link to the site where you found this?

 

-Deranged

[calithin83]

http://www.porn-free.org/porn_is_bad.htm

[dyermaker]

Deranged, the link is: http://www.porn-free.org/masturbation.htm

 

if i want to talk religious i can, obviously u dont want God being mentioned .

It's not God that bothers me, it's that you're trying to make us think like you spiritually. Pardon me, but, shouldn't you be busy removing the beam from your own eye?

[Kat]

Originally posted by lostforwords

little girl might i suggest you open your webster dictionary and read the definition for your word.... as well look up the word "ignorance"

 

I am fully aware of where the word [removed] came from. Again you have failed to open YOUR eyes to see the point I am trying to make and look beyond your 'reasoning' for having a go at me. And yet you call ME ignorant.?????

 

Wasn't it you who said that we should imply the 'water off a duck's back theory'?? Or does that only apply to women who have issues being called a sl*t or a ho?

[Kat]

Agreed, it has just gone to ****. Why can't people make good points these days without calling each other stupid or having to copy from websites and not original thought for their 'point of views'

[calithin83]

ya right Kat, why cant people have some respect for themselves and stop showing there asses to the world in there icons....

[Kat]

Originally posted by calithin83

ya right Kat, why cant people have some respect for themselves and stop showing there asses to the world in there icons....

 

If you have it, why not. If you don't, just accept it. Don't go around trying to take threads off topic because you have an issue with my self esteem and your lack of it.

 

I have had no complaints and all compliments. Just because you can't make any reply or rebuttle to anything I have said, don't resort to petty insults. If you have nothing to say, then don't say anything.

[calithin83]

actually ure the one who lacks the self esteem and thats why u post ure ass in the icon, because u need people to compliment u....

 

i dont need people in the online world to compliment me because i get it in the real world...so ure the one with the issues

[dyermaker]

Originally posted by calithin83

actually ure the one who lacks the self esteem and thats why u post ure ass in the icon, because u need people to compliment u....

LMAO!! Oh wow. If you think that that's her ass, you could BENEFIT from watching a few porn flicks, just to get your damn anatomy straight.

[Kat]

Originally posted by calithin83

actually ure the one who lacks the self esteem and thats why u post ure ass in the icon, because u need people to compliment u....

 

i dont need people in the online world to compliment me because i get it in the real world...so ure the one with the issues

Well firstly I am not parading my 'ass', it isn't even the right body half and secondly, if you feel the need to point out that I do it for attention online and you don't have to because you get it 'in the real world', then it that action alone it shows that it is YOU that has the issue (whatever it may be) and not me.

 

I couldn't care less if you think I do it for attention, or for the simple fact I thought it looked nice and not 'forward'. Obviously I was right, it isn't that forward as you can't even figure out what body part it is.