pgummins Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Hello everyone. The last three days/nights have been great for me. Out drinking with my freinds in the nice weather, keeping myself busy, hardly thinking of the ex. However, I was working with her today (as I do every week, once a week on average). It made me sick to see and hear her flirt with other guys, trying to get my attention etc. I feel like I can't move on when I know I will see her every week. So, in a rush, I went in and booked off the next two weeks meaning I won't see her for three weeks, and I have my birthday celebration in between (hope I dont ****ing recieve a present or anythign in the mail). Have I done the right thing? Anymore advice? I basically feel like I'm in limbo. I've given up smoking, trying to keep myself busy, but I keep getting knocked back it seems. I guess you can't rush the healing process, but whatever I can do to help it. I'm changing my number soon too. Is it possible to work with your ex and still get over her? Link to post Share on other sites
Odyssey Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 OP, it really sucks! But yes you can get over her...keep it professional. But the healing is going to take longer than no contact. Hang in there! Link to post Share on other sites
HockeyMom Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Hello everyone. The last three days/nights have been great for me. Out drinking with my freinds in the nice weather, keeping myself busy, hardly thinking of the ex. However, I was working with her today (as I do every week, once a week on average). It made me sick to see and hear her flirt with other guys, trying to get my attention etc. I feel like I can't move on when I know I will see her every week. So, in a rush, I went in and booked off the next two weeks meaning I won't see her for three weeks, and I have my birthday celebration in between (hope I dont ****ing recieve a present or anythign in the mail). Have I done the right thing? Anymore advice? I basically feel like I'm in limbo. I've given up smoking, trying to keep myself busy, but I keep getting knocked back it seems. I guess you can't rush the healing process, but whatever I can do to help it. I'm changing my number soon too. Is it possible to work with your ex and still get over her? Well it sounds like you're doing all the right things. That's a tough question. I don't think I'll get over my ex whether I worked with him or not. But yes I work with him and his new girlfriend and it is torture!! You seem to have a better mind set and the will to get over her so I would think you probably would be able to when the time is right. Link to post Share on other sites
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