xalysabethh Posted January 17, 2004 Share Posted January 17, 2004 Ok i've been dating this guy for a few months and we both have custody of our kids we get togehter with the kids (they were friends first) two times a week and we get together by ourselves (usually after work) like 2 times a week. the problem i'm having is it seems like we dont do much. i mean on the days the kids are all together we get the kids dinner let them play we usually watch a tv show and a lot of the times he falls asleep becasue hes so tired. we've gone on a few dates but its hard wtih 5 kids. and when he comes over with out the kids we usualy end up having sex or litening to music etc. or him even fallen asleep. i just feel like we should be haveing more quality time i dont even know what else i would like to doi just know when me and my husband were together we would always watch movies, play games etc. i just feel like we dont do much. am i just being silly? thanks xalysabeth Link to post Share on other sites
andreautick Posted January 21, 2004 Share Posted January 21, 2004 You're not being silly. That is substanceful. My boyfriend has a kid, and sometimes we watch his friend's two kids together too, and I don't usually care what we do at all, as long as I'm with my boyfriend and these other beautiful little people. But, if you aren't feeling fulfilledin what you are doing with this person, it could mean something. And, you need to listen to your gut and your feelings about this. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
KS Posted January 21, 2004 Share Posted January 21, 2004 Is there any way you can get away just the two of you for a weekend or something? That'll give you a chance to find out a lot more about the way you feel. Link to post Share on other sites
heartburn Posted January 21, 2004 Share Posted January 21, 2004 Get a BABYSITTER! Link to post Share on other sites
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