skreen23 Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Its almost been a year now since me and my ex-fiancee broke up. During that year i've gone through what can only be described as an emotional rollercoaster but thank God i'm almost totally over it, almost. To help me get over this trauma i decided to treat myself to a trip to india in january. I also started dating someone else at this time. I've had very little contact from the former love of my life during this time but on christmas day i received a lenghty text from her which i chose to ignore. In febuary i went for lunch with my ex's sister (i remained on good terms wth her family) and during the meal she brought my ex up. She said that when my ex heard i was going to india she got upset saying we had planned to go there together, also when i ignored her christmas text that also upset her. It goes to show that even though they may not contact us it doesn't mean they don't think about us. Link to post Share on other sites
nobmagnet Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Very good point! My ex got mardy when I said for my 40th i was going on a "city slickers" trip to the states. I had great pleasure in explaining it was always my dream and he tagged on to it. Just because you have gone doesnt mean my life should stop and my dreams are spent................. sweet quiet revenge. Nobby xx Link to post Share on other sites
Author skreen23 Posted April 12, 2010 Author Share Posted April 12, 2010 "city slickers?" That's when you work on a ranch for a while? Cool Link to post Share on other sites
nobmagnet Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 :love: Yep love all on my OWN. Make some memories!!!! They may hurt us but we should all remain strong to our own personal goals and dreams. What dont kill us makes us stronger. (I am having a good day ) Nobby xx Link to post Share on other sites
eraser Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Was she the one who messed up in the relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
Author skreen23 Posted April 12, 2010 Author Share Posted April 12, 2010 She broke it off. We were together almost 6 years, engaged 2. She asked for a break/space and then broke it off after i rang her to give my condolences when a friend of her's passed away. Link to post Share on other sites
nobmagnet Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Something to keep in our hearts............. They expect us to be broken because they have big egos. To never let them see that we are and tr to continue to dream is a real kick in the mouth for them. :p:D:p Obviously that is a sweeping statement :laugh::laugh: but i get great pleaseure in looking my best and always "im going out on the town can you hurry up?" when he fetches the kids always gets to him. Muhahahahahahahah. I have never once cried infront of him. Not even when i discovered he was a low life cheating git. I packed his bag and threw it at him. Our dreams and ambitions are our own. Never allow another person take them away. Nobby xx Link to post Share on other sites
Author skreen23 Posted April 12, 2010 Author Share Posted April 12, 2010 Like that, good attitude to have. I tried to develop the mindset that i wanted her in my life but didn't NEED her. I think part of her liked the idea of me pining and grieving over her and my reactions to her undermined this. The night she said she needed space i said take all the space you want just don't expect me to be around waiting for you Link to post Share on other sites
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