Ruthieo10 Posted January 18, 2004 Share Posted January 18, 2004 Hey, Ok I have a silly little question. I am about to be married and I am extremely nervous about the wedding Night. I am not really nervous about having sex just the whole akward moment. Neither one of us have ever been with anyone. Is there anything I can do to make the whole process go as smoothly as possible. I would like opinons from both Guys and Gals. Thank you so much Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted January 18, 2004 Share Posted January 18, 2004 Take it slowly. Start out by doing all the stuff you've already done so far so you'll feel comfortable and that you're in a familiar situation. Continue doing that until you are very aroused - you'll not have time or thought for embarrasment or awkwardness at that point. Link to post Share on other sites
First time Posted January 18, 2004 Share Posted January 18, 2004 On our wedding night my husband and I did a number of things to help us relax after a long day AND get over that initial awkwardness; 1) We brought some romantic cd's, with music that we enjoyed. 2) Made sure we had a cd player (because we were in a hotel for the first night) that had batteries. 3) Took two or three (safe) candles and matches. (meaning, the candles were in glass jars type idea. 4) Bubble bath Then, we poured a hot, steamy bath, lit the candles, turned on some mood music....and enjoyed a lovely and relaxing soak. We just laughed and talked about what we remembered from the day or what was going through our minds when we weren't able to talk (for instance, while someone was telling us for the umpteenth time that day to smile). We also just took the time to touch each other, washing each others hair and the such. It helped us to unwind and get aroused. Just remember to try to find things to laugh at, even if you are exasperated. Link to post Share on other sites
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