poker91 Posted April 14, 2010 Share Posted April 14, 2010 ok i am currently in college and i really like this girl who i have known for about 3 months but in the past month we have been talking more. Two weeks ago i told her that i liked her and then she told me she would give me a chance. A couple days after that she said that she wanted to be the girl for me but doesnt know if she could. Then like last thursday we started holding hands and just like rubbing each other when we were watching a movie. The day after that i get a text saying she doesnt want a relationship since then we have talked still and like hungout. In the last few days though she always ask me like how my day is and everything and she didnt do that before and i just dont know what to do with the whole situation any advice. Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted April 14, 2010 Share Posted April 14, 2010 She "doesn't want a relationship" = she doesn't want a relationship with you. Advice: Move on because she's not interested in dating you. If you are 100% ok with being just friends and have absolutely no romantic feelings towards her, then you can continue to talk to her, hang out, and just be her friend. Otherwise, tell her you have enough friends and leave her alone. Find another girl who is actually interested in dating you. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted April 14, 2010 Share Posted April 14, 2010 She wants you 2 b her buddy not a bf. Is that ok with you? Tell her if you can't b a bf then you don't want 2 b just friends (where she gets all the benefits of a relationship without the commitment). If you want a gf then you have to take a stand and walk away, if they don't want the same, otherwise you will just b hanging around while she dates the guy she wants as a bf. Link to post Share on other sites
marsle85 Posted April 15, 2010 Share Posted April 15, 2010 Yeah man. Sorry to reconfirm but: if she doesn't want a relationship, she doesn't like you enough. Link to post Share on other sites
Samari Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 Doesn't seem like she's interested in you enough to warrant a relationship. Move on. If you want, you can keep her a friend with benefits if she's into that sort of thing. That scenario of course depends on a person's morals. Link to post Share on other sites
Peaceful Guy Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 ok i am currently in college and i really like this girl who i have known for about 3 months but in the past month we have been talking more. Two weeks ago i told her that i liked her and then she told me she would give me a chance. A couple days after that she said that she wanted to be the girl for me but doesnt know if she could. Then like last thursday we started holding hands and just like rubbing each other when we were watching a movie. The day after that i get a text saying she doesnt want a relationship since then we have talked still and like hungout. In the last few days though she always ask me like how my day is and everything and she didnt do that before and i just dont know what to do with the whole situation any advice. its okay dude. she's a friend, she was honest with you. you guys can hang out again but it would be best to calmly and casually find a fun activity to do over the weekend that would involve different people. maybe find an adventure to go on?? Link to post Share on other sites
teanoranges Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 Wish I would have known before I got in my relationship with the 'I just don't want to put labels on it' Its a bad sign.... Just be friends, but keep your emotions -in that way- distanced! Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted April 24, 2010 Share Posted April 24, 2010 ok i am currently in college and i really like this girl who i have known for about 3 months but in the past month we have been talking more. Thats a really long time to know a girl with out anything happening. Two weeks ago i told her that i liked her and then she told me she would give me a chance. Thats not very romantic, just flat out telling a girl you like her and expecting her to make the next move? You should have just kissed her. A couple days after that she said that she wanted to be the girl for me but doesnt know if she could. So you let a couple of days just go by and waited for her to be the man and make the move? Then like last thursday we started holding hands and just like rubbing each other when we were watching a movie. So you told this girl you liked her weeks ago... She said then came to you and said she would be your girl... And all you did was hold hands and rub... You have to be more romantic... How about holding her and kissing her on the lips and making out with her and making her feel the fire you have for her. The day after that i get a text saying she doesnt want a relationship since then we have talked still and like hungout. In the last few days though she always ask me like how my day is and everything and she didnt do that before and i just dont know what to do with the whole situation any advice. My advice is enough talk, Just kiss her on the lips already, make out with he be bold show her a real romance. She is probably interested in you. Its your job to put yourself in a position where you actualy try to kiss her and touch her and be with her. That way if she doesn't want you she will reject you. Don't play it safe... it will make you seem lame and fake. You need to be yourself and do the things you want to do but are to afraid to because you think she will reject you. Put yourself in a position to get majorly rejected... and if she doesn't then you have ur answer. Link to post Share on other sites
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