Couture Posted January 18, 2004 Share Posted January 18, 2004 A couple of months ago I was introduced to this guy through a friend it was only briefly but he told me how beautiful he thought I was. So a few weeks pass and then at a party I’m introduced to him again and he told me he remembered meeting me and we spent the whole night talking. I was separated from friends so stayed over at his. My friend warned me of his reputation with girls, which I was a little shocked with because he came across as someone completely different, but he sent me several SMS a few days later, I told him I was going away on holiday for a week and left it at that because we were also breaking for 3 weeks after for vacation and I’d been hurt to much by guys to be mucked around by another one. Over the holiday my friend told me he had taken another girl home during the week I was away so last Monday However last Monday I was out in a club and saw him I didn’t make a point of going up to talk to him and just pretended I hadn’t seen me. He approached me and asked how I was, we started talking and he turned around and asked why I hadn’t text him. I didn’t mention anything about this other girl and just told him I was waiting for him to text me. He told me he thought I wasn’t interested so was playing it cool. We spent the evening chatting again and he told me how scary it was that we had so much in common which is true, and referred to ‘us’ a few times. So for the last week or so we’ve been swapping several SMS and he came over last Sunday to watch videos and the strange thing is I’m usually so shy around guys but talking to him is so easy and whenever I’m around him everything just feels so right. I’m still scared of his reputation though I don’t want to get hurt because I’m fed up of being mucked around by guys. But my friend pointed out if he just wanted sex he could go out and get it anytime as that’s what he’s used to and would he invest so much time in me if he weren’t interested? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted January 18, 2004 Share Posted January 18, 2004 Hey, you've got to understand this is all a gamble. If this guy is a player and you know that, then see him for sure fully knowing his reputation. Make sure you don't go to bed with him for quite a while. And when you do, if you do, be prepared to be another one of his conquests...or his future wife. It could go either way but we aren't your psychic friends here. I'd say you have a heads up if you know what this guy's been like. Just be cautious and enjoy. The game has to end one day for every player...maybe you are the conclusion meant for him. But you'll never know unless you play it out. On the other hand, if you don't think you can handle getting crushed, stay out of the game. Link to post Share on other sites
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