marto Posted January 18, 2004 Share Posted January 18, 2004 Ok i got together with this girl (we are both 20) who started where i work, who had just come out of a relationship with another dude. We started to date, go out and all the usual stuff for about a month or so and everything was gr8. Esp as i really fell for her. Then after the first month she i could tell she seemed distant (we stopped doing the usual boyfriend/girlfriend stuff after this period too) and asked what was the matter. She told me that she needed time to get over her old boyfriend and that we should have break up until she has "sorted her life out". She still wants to remain the closest of friends too. Now its being 2 days since she told me this and being without her is killing me, i really cannot get her outta my head and want her back. I seriously need advice what to do, what to ask her etc. Im really dreding going out "as friends too" cuz it will be sooooo different. As much i hate it i still want to see her as a friend cuz i have seriously fell for her in a short period of time. She says we can still go out and do things as friends, but she doesnt want the commitment of a boyfriend at the mo. What the heck should i do???? advice plzzzzzzz Link to post Share on other sites
Starlight43 Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 Well, if she wants a break give her one, which means dont go with her as friends for the time being. stay away from her, that way hopefully she will start to miss ya. . I wouldn't make a move other than that until she says she wants to be back together with you because dont you want to be together with someone who is really into just you?! i would! hope this helps! Link to post Share on other sites
marto2 Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 well i asked her that if during this "cooling off period" that she would see any1 else, she said no way. Im thinking of meeting up with her to discuss stuff and see if we csn get back together, but make the relationship less intense. As i said somewhere, i really like this girl and feel differently about her than others that i have gone out with. Link to post Share on other sites
Starlight43 Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 well, i still say that if you really want her to appreciate you, then wait until she does something. . Link to post Share on other sites
marto22 Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 well tonight we talked things over and sorted a few things out. Shes says bye, walks outtta the car then knocks on the window on my side and gives me a kiss then goes in her house. I MEAN WTF IS ALL THAT ABOUT! Link to post Share on other sites
Prettyangel Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Looks to me like the typical rebound relationship! Move on! She is not over her ex and you are asking for a big heartache here. Gppd Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
marto Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 well u peeps were sorta right. she says that she needs a little time to get over her previous boyfriend. she wants to remain the closest of friends. I got a offer to get my end away since then and am thinking of taking it cuz i cba to wait for this girl. what u think? Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts