butterflysil Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 posted in wrong forum first. I'll start from the beginning. i have not been in a realtionship in a long while and was ok being single. i do get lonely but i don't really want a boyfriend. when men hit on me i really don't give it much thought and leave it at that. this started in class we are both over 21 he is a liitle younger than me. here is the thing we exchanged numbers which quickly turned flirtaious and sexual. he later told me he had a girlfriend so i asked him to stop flirting. in class we became closer friends from sitting far awya to right next to each other. he texts me about 100 times a day. i really didn't think much of it since he has a girlfriend. well my problem is i have been very frustrated and wanted more of a one time thing. so we were hanging out late last night both drunk and quickly turned into heavy petting. we both started to sober up and stopped than we started talking about random things including his girlfriend. i decided to leave but when i stepped outside i quickly realized i couldn't drive home. so i asked if i could stay allittle longer he seemed very hesitant but allowed me too.i took some pills and soon felt better. but i did something stupid and just got on top of him which he did respond for a second than pushed me off. he said he feels guilty and we should both just call it a night. than he texted me you are a good person. he spent weeks trying to be with me. even told me flat out he had full intentions of just sleeping with me but couldn't pull it off. i just don't understand how a man can try so hard and when it comes time finally give in he rejects me. now i have to see him in class. what went wrong? Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 i just don't understand how a man can try so hard and when it comes time finally give in he rejects me. Because fantasy is awesome, and reality can be a cold splash in the groin. I don't know that it has much to do with him liking you or not liking you so much as he was feeling pretty bad about the stark reality of cheating on his girlfriend. For some people, they justify what they are doing by degrees saying.. 'well, it isn't cheating if I do X or Y' and keep pushing the line back. I guess when it came to actual sex, he realized he reached a line he didn't want to cross for a variety of reasons. Walk away and don't look back. The sooner the better. Link to post Share on other sites
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