moimeme Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 If only I had a nickel for every post on every forum that expressed this 'nice guy' myth. I'd be a bazillionaire. Is it not possible that the guy you think is a 'cocky SOB' is actually a great, confident, fun guy and you're seeing him through the eyes of jealousy? Or maybe it's more likely he'll not show you the side of him that women appreciate. Maybe they are gems and wonderful guys and people who can't outdo them are green with envy. Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Originally posted by moimeme Is it not possible that the guy you think is a 'cocky SOB' is actually a great, confident, fun guy and MUCH MUCH more...with NO envy.....just admiration???? Link to post Share on other sites
Author silk_sword Posted January 20, 2004 Author Share Posted January 20, 2004 My question is, why do so many women go for the cocky SOB's? in all honesty, i hate the bad boy image. i've always despised it. something about those guys makes me want to cringe. i hate the idea of individuals using one antoher. the attitude and the presence of these guys is enough to make my blood boil. i have always been the type to stand up and put my hand in these guys faces. however, now i can no longer speak in light of my current situation. but, the good guys have always been my head turner. they always capture my attention. i don't know y, but i just always want u men. something about your maturity and your heart. i'm not quite sure. but the good boys r definately my turn on. however, i've been told i'm a very different girl. i suppose it's just harder to find the types of girls who dig the good guys. but we r the girls worth waiting and searching for. we won't step on u or take advantage of your character. Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Originally posted by silk_sword My question is, why do so many women go for the cocky SOB's? in all honesty, i hate the bad boy image. i've always despised it. something about those guys makes me want to cringe. I don't think you hate them that much, my dear! ~V Link to post Share on other sites
Author silk_sword Posted January 20, 2004 Author Share Posted January 20, 2004 them yes - one in particular, no. quite the opposite in fact! Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Originally posted by Thinkalot This is soooo not appealing Vivid. I am afraid I will have to stand with moi and silk on this one...we can forge the bond of sisterhood or something. Nice guys are not boring or lacking in challenge at all. Every relationship is a challenge in itself! You don't need to add to it by being a cocky SOB at all! They all take effort. Soooooo not appealing........ to you that is... ~V Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkalot Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Why yes, I can't speak for all women, just based on my own experiences. I want someone who is strong and knows his own mind, but I don't want an arrogant bastard. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Soooooo not appealing........ to you that is... You're losing count of the vote, Viv. Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 I have found that sex appeal always over-rides the count of the masses. Women bond....but harmones DON'T! Link to post Share on other sites
Author silk_sword Posted January 20, 2004 Author Share Posted January 20, 2004 You're losing count of the vote, Viv. count as stands on this thread - 3 - lol Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Alright, my fellow cocky SOB's. Where the hell are you all at? I need reinforcements! Three against one, and I'm barely standing my ground!!! ~V Link to post Share on other sites
Author silk_sword Posted January 20, 2004 Author Share Posted January 20, 2004 Alright, my fellow cocky SOB's. Where the hell are you all at? I need reinforcements! Three against one, and I'm barely standing my ground!!! but sir flirt, y r u not just taming us with your charm? Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 The guys aren't coming! Arabess, Skittles, Yes, Lostforwords -- Where are you at? HELP!!! The artillery barrage is pounding on me!!! ~V Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Gee - not so tough in the face of a passle of feisty women, now, are we? Link to post Share on other sites
Author silk_sword Posted January 20, 2004 Author Share Posted January 20, 2004 ah ground pounder, can't u handle little me? u and that m-60. oh my charm must be a strong shield. but, if u get through then moimeme will always save the day. Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Originally posted by Vivid_29 Alright, my fellow cocky SOB's. Where the hell are you all at? I need reinforcements! Three against one, and I'm barely standing my ground!!! ~V Putting in early bets on the Super Bowl, maybe? Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Originally posted by moimeme Gee - not so tough in the face of a passle of feisty women, now, are we? ARRRRRRGHHHHHHH!!!! Now that's a shot below the belt. This is sooooooooo not fair! And as for silk_sword -- she is gonna get it later! You better stop, Moi!!! The more you come at me, the more silk_sword will suffer! So, if you care about her, you better cease fire! ~V Link to post Share on other sites
Author silk_sword Posted January 20, 2004 Author Share Posted January 20, 2004 And as for silk_sword -- she is gonna get it later! You better stop, Moi!!! The more you come at me, the more silk_sword will suffer! So, if you care about her, you better cease fire! she knows better. we both know one colt that has been broken. hmmmmm... right moi? gonna get it? hmmmm... do u mean lack of getting it? this infantry will not back down. the fort will be overthrown! Link to post Share on other sites
Author silk_sword Posted January 20, 2004 Author Share Posted January 20, 2004 women all the way!! woohoo! Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Ooooo Vivid. If the doors to the fort are closed, you can have the biggest battering ram around but it ain't going nowhere Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 'Cept maybe to another, weaker fort. Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Originally posted by silk_sword women all the way!! woohoo! More like a bunch of spoiled brat, little girls!!! ~V Link to post Share on other sites
Author silk_sword Posted January 20, 2004 Author Share Posted January 20, 2004 'Cept maybe to another, weaker fort. weakness - never! More like a bunch of spoiled brat, little girls!!! spoil me baby - u know i deserve it! Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 Originally posted by moimeme Ooooo Vivid. If the doors to the fort are closed, you can have the biggest battering ram around but it ain't going nowhere Oh please, Moi. By double teaming me, this is the only way you little girls could take me! Did you all plan this??!!!!!!??? Are you all starting an organization against me? Trying to overthrow me? ~V Link to post Share on other sites
Author silk_sword Posted January 20, 2004 Author Share Posted January 20, 2004 all women deserve to be spoiled. and we r only brats to brats. Oh please, Moi. By double teaming me, this is the only way you little girls could take me! Did you all plan this??!!!!!!??? Are you all starting an organization against me? don't need to, either of us could take u on, one on one. care for a round? Link to post Share on other sites
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