Secure Posted July 9, 2010 Share Posted July 9, 2010 OHHHHH REALLLLY......is this what woman want! Is this what you do for your husband? Is this what most woman do for their husbands? Is the above something that MEN would want? I am absolutely SICK of entitled woman, who think THEY must be treated like princesses. THEY WANT WANT WANT. Men want this too! This is why your husband doesnt want to have sex with you. Because you WANT, but don't give. Try your above recipe on your husband. YES REALLLLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You have no idea what I do for my husband. And YES, my husband finds me very attractive. I am speaking of what may work for some WOMEN to increase their desires for sex. Have you been reading the thread, I don't think commenting on what I give to my husband would be beneficial. Anyone who would lay down with a man who refuses to treat her like a princess is an idiot. From reading this thread, it sounds like the men are the ones who primarily "WANT, WANT, WANT." Sincerely, The "entitled" woman Link to post Share on other sites
Secure Posted July 9, 2010 Share Posted July 9, 2010 Perhaps 2x in the past year. This is driven by me. Her 6 month affair, 2.5 years ago robbed any desire for me to have sex with her. I will be leaving when I am ready (planning about 1 year from now). Then...good luck to the next woman....the sex will be non stop for quite a while. Not surprised. Link to post Share on other sites
AmeliaApple Posted July 9, 2010 Share Posted July 9, 2010 I'm 43, married 7 years, and sex starved. We have one 18y/o daughter (from her previous M) going off to college. Sex has steadily dwindled with each passing year. I have been increasingly stepping up my game to no avail. I am at a loss. We have been in M/C for 5 years now. The sex has gotten less and less. We are now down to once every 2-3 weeks -- just enough to piss me off. I am here to hopefully discover what I am doing wrong. What I have found so far is that when she sees me as manly and in control, she has high desire. When she sees me as conquered (by her), she has little desire. I truly believe that most women in general crave strength even to the point of disfunctionality. When I become too nice, I become undesireable to her. I think she only wants what she can't have. Once she can have something, it is no longer of interest to her. Short of divorce, I do not see a direction I can march toward to fix my situation. a) if you're trying, you aren't doing anything wrong. Good for you! B) women do like a man "in charge". It is fundamentally, perhaps evolutionarily, sexy. I'd give anything to be "taken over" a few times. I found that what is difficult for me is that in my relationship, historically speaking, I've always been the "aggressor"....he has even said as much; but after a while, being the constant "aggressor" gets old. Link to post Share on other sites
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