moimeme Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 And there's not a lot you can do about it: http://www.carycounseling.com/intimacy/intimacyarticles/mistakes.htm From another article in that series: The sad truth is that some forms of love may be both intense and lethal. Certain personality disorders are capable of producing the most intense forms of love, yet their relationships yield a much higher homicide rate. Many others are somewhat less pathological but are still capable of episodic loving with intense passion as well as leading the partner’s life to general turmoil. http://www.carycounseling.com/intimacy/intimacyarticles/hope.htm If you have time, read through the whole set. The guy's got a great take on all this stuff. Link to post Share on other sites
Kriz Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 I visited the url. A marital first aid kit? Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 You can behave in "better" or "worse" ways to influence relationships but you cannot control them. EXACTLY! I think most relationships crumble not because there was anything wrong with one of the parners....some relationships run their course....or simply do not work. There isn't a book, counsellor or action in the world you can do to change the fact that someone does not want to be with you anymore. It's like trying to make a car run when it's out of gas....it just won't happen. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 As usual, GREAT links!!! Thanks so much!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author moimeme Posted January 19, 2004 Author Share Posted January 19, 2004 To the Link Lady What, I got demoted from 'Goddess of Links'? Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkalot Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 This is a great link Merry...I forwarded it on to my partner to read! Link to post Share on other sites
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