cherubim Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 Her school has labs open 24 hours a day. She is in a very demanding graduate program. I work up at 5 am n she wasnt home so i Text her n she text back at 530 saying she went out with 2 guys from class and that she was heading back to school to pick up her car so she could come back home. I asked if she had fun n she said it was just two hours at a club. Tuesday night by the way. She got home at 7 am showered slept for an hour n then had to leave again for her big presentation at 9 am in school. What do yall think? Link to post Share on other sites
JustJoe Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 Cherubim, more importantly, what do you think about this? Link to post Share on other sites
Church Bells Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 Cherubim, more importantly, what do you think about this? Exactly ... one thing I've learned through this mess ... is to trust what YOUR gut is telling you. If it doesn't feel "right" to you, then likely something is going on. Tell us a little more about your situation: How old? Married how long? Kids? Ever suspect or confirm any poor boundaries/behaviors before? Overall, what is the current state of your M? Any recent changes? Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 In another post, OP said that she wanted to move out... I think she's done with you... divorce.. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 What do yall think? She certainly has checked out of the marriage... If she would rather spend 2 hours at a bar with someone other than her husband then something is up.. What?.. who knows Either she is looking, banging someone else or just done with the marriage and is doing what she wants.. all are not good... Time for a serious talk.. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 I just read your other thread about her already having another apartment rented and her asking you to go back to Europe with a one way ticket to work with your family. I'm sorry to say.. but you need to seek a divorce attorney, and make sure the divorce is final before you go back to Europe. Sorry.... Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 I think the other poster Lizzie nailed it. She is done with you. See a lawyer and move on with your life. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 Ditto what everyone else has said. Don't waste time...get a lawyer now. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 Yeah, it's over. Seek legal help immediately! Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 What do yall think? that she was cheating on you. no explanation as to where she was til 7am after going to a club. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 I'm sorry for your pain. I agree with everyone else. Protect yourself, talk to a lawyer. Link to post Share on other sites
seibert253 Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 If it were I, when she got home she would have found her sh#t sitting out by the curb and the locks changed. Retain a lawyer and have her served. Link to post Share on other sites
RaeRae30 Posted April 26, 2010 Share Posted April 26, 2010 I was this woman in my marriage. Out all night with a clever excuse every time. I was fooling around, so is she. I am sorry she has treated you like this. Link to post Share on other sites
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