Atlantico Posted May 22, 2010 Share Posted May 22, 2010 (edited) I can relate so much with Jennifer1972. I am also a scientist, therefore over-analyse everything, and I have the same problem with my wife, she was more experienced, me 1 partner only. How do I deal with it? Isolating myself, including from her. I love her, but I see her as a toy in the other side of the showroom, were I will not dwell much. Basically I only go there when she asks. Lots of agravation of course. One thing I learned from my extensive online experience: If you want to know about the sexual past of a woman, ask her in the first 30 minutes of the first online conversation: they will spill it out. Woman have an inbuilt tendency to be truthfull, that can be amplified by the an online faceless conversation. Now, if that women becomes your wife, you will regret those magic 30 minutes for the rest of your life. Edited May 22, 2010 by Atlantico Link to post Share on other sites
samspade Posted May 24, 2010 Share Posted May 24, 2010 Classic conundrum...Every man wants his girl to be a slut, so long as she's just HIS slut. Link to post Share on other sites
1qkblugt Posted May 24, 2010 Share Posted May 24, 2010 Looking back~ Thank you for your thread My husband is suffering with a similar situation.. If it wasn't for your post we wouldn't have been able to figure out what his situation was. RJ is a very serious and debilitating thing.. Good luck to you..... Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 You want a new car then never buy a used car you will never be happy. What was done before you should not matter. If a girl had a past that bothers you don't marry her. Link to post Share on other sites
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